Letting Go and Growing Up: How to Foster Independence in Your Children

Tips and Tricks on Domesticity , Hey there, parents! Parenthood is a beautiful journey filled with many ups and downs. One of the biggest challenges we face as parents is finding a balance between nurturing our children and letting them spread their wings to fly independently. It's that bittersweet moment when the training wheels come off, and we realize they're not our little babies anymore, but rather young individuals ready to conquer the world. So, how do we foster independence in our children? Let's dive into this exciting topic!

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10 Ways of Developing Brain Child

Tips and Trick for Domesticity. There are two basic components in a child's brain development, which is a safe environment and positive experiences. When a baby is feeling depressed, the brain will respond by producing cortisol substances. High cortisol levels will slow the development of the brain. Safe and comfortable environment needed to help the baby brain development. Give a response when the baby cries and babbling.

Experience received each day will also help the brain development of children. Activities carried out in everyday life, like taking him to the market or to the bookstore is very important for the formation of brain cell development network.

Here are 10 tips for parents to build a base of the brain development of children:
1. Give care and affection that adequate during pregnancy.
2. Give adequate nutrition. The first six months of infant life, provide adequate nutrition to breast milk.
3. Provide a safe environment and comfortable for children.
4. Talk to your baby. Make eye contact when talking to children. Do not forget to always smile to the child.
5. If you must leave the child, look for the high-quality care.
6. Recommend a variety of music on children, and sing together.
7. Give real interaction with the child for brain development. Do not let children watch TV for too long. Limit the time.
8. Give space for children to be able to interact with peers.
9. Relieve stress on parents. Parents who are stressed tend to shift the stress to their children. When you feel stressed, try to talk to someone close to you.
10. Remember, your brain will never stop growing. So, give as much stimulation continuously

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When Children Ask about Sex

Tips and Trick for Domesticity. The development of information technology to make our children very easy to get information about anything, including sex. Not infrequently, they get the information freely triggers curiosity. How should parents be ?

Discussing sex with children was very strange indeed, but it is better for children if the source of information about it obtained from the parents. That way, children can understand what sexual relationship, and how to make him act on it with a reasonable portion.

Many studies conclude, how to talk about sex to children is a form of open discussion and honest. This means, parents have had to create safety for the children to talk about anything, too, since they were children. That way, when you initiate the discussion, the children do not feel middle diinterograsi by his parents. The following guidelines Prevention collected from several studies that have:

1. The time is right to begin discussions about sex to children is when they enter primary school age. This age is the age enough for children to understand the message we convey. Every time a child asks, as weird as any questions, try to react normally. Thus, the child will not feel afraid to find answers from his parents.

2. If you feel uncomfortable to start a discussion, make an adult movie or song that was caught his attention as an intermediary. Recommend whether it's a feeling in love, healthy friends with the opposite sex, and most importantly how to make decisions for yourself.

3. Make the library and religious leaders as sources of additional information the child. This will help your child get an idea, how should the opposite sex relationships, family relationships, and friendships formed. Thus, the child can understand that any relationship that exists has a sense of responsibility to respect others.

4. Limit your child interaction on the site that provide excessive information about sex. This means, parents still have to monitor that any information received by the child according to his needs

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Having Ideal Age Children

Tips and Trick for Domesticity. Many women are asking when is age appropriate or ideal to have a child. Because women will be pursued by the age of childbearing age and prone to get pregnant. Age is an important factor in determining the ideal time to conceive. Women's body will experience a change in his life, because that woman wants to have children at an ideal age. In addition to the age of physical condition is also a deciding factor, a young woman may be more experienced and capable of raising children.

Physically, the ideal age for pregnancy is between the ages of 18 to 20 years. Because at that age a woman has little chance of complications and have a healthy body and lush.

One study also showed that a woman's fertility begins to decline after age 20 years and will decline rapidly after age 35 years. Because of the age was considered ideal to have a child.

But there are other factors that should be considered by women. Children are the future investment and should be women who want to have children should be ready financially and emotionally. Should be considered also whether to give the child full of love, health and good education and whether the child will affect the careers and ambitions of the mother.

While teens more at risk of complications in pregnancy, and infant mortality is higher occur in pregnant teenagers. Teenagers who have become mothers are not ready financially and emotionally to have a child.

For women aged over 35 years is not physically ideal age for having children. Because at that age a little of the hormone progesterone, which is an important hormone to help investment eggs in the uterine lining. Women aged 35 years and over was unlikely to get pregnant naturally and a higher risk of miscarriage.

Of course the most important thing that should be considered in determining when to have children are prepared physically, emotionally and financially. Because it may be happening outside of what is considered ideal.

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Fathers and Mothers Have Different Roles in Providing Knowledge to Children

Tips and Trick for Domesticity. It is expected that parents understand child development and keep up with knowledge. Just like children, parents also have a gender and a different temperament that contribute to the ways that differ in parenting. In general, the father and mother have an equal role in parenting their children. But there is little difference in the touch of what is shown by the father and mother.

Motherhood
1. Foster feelings of love and love to children through a long interaction involves physical touch and affection.
2. Growing language skills in children through the activities of storytelling and storytelling, as well as through activities that are closer to child, ie, speaking from the heart to the children.
3. Teach about gender roles of women, about how to act as a woman, and what is expected by the social environment of a woman.

Role of fathers
1. Feeling confident and competent in children through play activities are more physically violent and involve both inside and outside the room.
2. Growing need for achieving the desire to introduce children through the child activities of the various stories about the ideals.
3. Teach about gender roles of men, about how to act as a man, and what is expected by the social environment of man.

The role of parents in child rearing change over the growth and development. Therefore, parents are expected to understand the phases of child development and keep up. The child needs to perform certain actions on the environment to be able to develop complex ways of looking and intelligent on every experience. It is the task of parents to give children the experience they need to develop a perfect intellect.

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Intelligent Child with the Right Nutrition

Tips and Trick for Domesticity. Undeniably, every mother wanted her baby (boy) is smart. Intelligence of a child affected by at least 3 important factors, namely: Descendants of (genetic), Nutrition, and environmental stimulation. The third important factor is very influential and supportive to the achievement of optimal child pontention.

In addition to genetic factors, intelligent women who need to consider the needs of the fruit of his early nutrition and stimulation factors. Good nutrition is essential at the early stages of a baby's life. There are many nutrients needed for healthy brain development, among others: Protein and amino acid, AA-DHA, GA (Gangliosida), Kolina and other micro nutrients.

At the time of birth, every baby's mother has approximately 100 billion brain cells, but not all brain cells connected to each other baby perfectly. Brain experiencing construction period since the fetus until the first decade of childhood. The effort needs to be done to optimize the relationship between cells is through nutrition. During this construction period more nerve cells are formed and used. Strength and the number of new connections between cells, nerve cells are the basis for the memory of a child until adulthood.

One of the important nutrients the brain needs is Gangliosida, ie for the formation of memory and general function of the cerebrum, the growth and formation of nerve cells as well as modulators, which can transmit information and store data.

Therefore, it is recommended to a mother to provide milk for your baby. Gangliosida also be obtained from Gangliosida containing nutrients such as milk. Wise mother expected to give additional food such as milk contain Gangliosida for his son.

Nutrition is not enough without be balanced by early stimulation because it also plays a very important role in motor growth infants and toddlers. A mother is expected to stimulate children to play and interact with their environment, exercise and other creative activities in order to stimulate a child's brain development even more complete.

Fonterra Brands Indonesia, the world's dairy companies from New Zealand who already have research and experience in the field of milk since the beginning of the year 2008 presents ANMUM ESSENTIAL, infant formula containing nutrients that is superior Gangliosida. in addition to the content of DHA and AA, and a (alpha) protein and other essential nutrients.

Fonterra Brands convinced that breast milk is best for babies, and supporting breastfeeding as a natural food for unparalleled growth and optimal infant development. If a mother can not breastfeed, it is advisable to consult with a health professional.

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Tips Teach Children Crime Alert

Tips and Trick for Domesticity. Warm and open communication is the key requirement as to instill an attitude of prudence, to avoid the evil child. That way, parents can conduct surveillance, even taking the necessary steps. Well, here are some ways that parents can do to teach caution or prudence attitude in children :

1. Explain, face / friendly behavior does not always mean better
Generally, children of school age can be encouraged to think logically, so that he could given the signs so wary of people who interact with it. Only at the beginning of the school age child's thinking ability is still concrete. So, if you see a friendly face, the child was immediately considered a good person. Therefore, do not teach everyone who looks neat and looks really nice well-intentioned. And vice versa.

2. Tell behavior limits can and can not
Children need to know, limits the behavior and attitudes can and can not be one of himself, whether foreigners or people who are known to be close. For example, the person should not hold certain parts of the child. Tell me, his body is something precious and should be maintained. No one else who can hold it. Similarly, when an adult tried to hug her. Children should avoid or immediately released her.

3. Teach children to face the stranger
Basically, children are not prohibited from interacting with strangers, but there is need for caution. Exchange of greetings, for example, okay to do at strangers. Others as if someone had asked him more about themselves and the child's identity as the home, parents, etc., should teach children not to answer in detail. In addition, children should report to the school or adult if there is a suspicious stranger.

4. Do not allow children to accept any gift from someone else
If someone offers something, whether it be food, drinks or a particular item, should be taught to politely refuse. If children feel forced to accept it, should not be taking them. Report on the school or parents about these ratings. Who knew food or drink is dangerous.

5. Remind kids not susceptible to persuasion
In order not to suspect, could be someone who meant no harm to approach in a long time in children, so when children are already familiar, these people started running style-jurusnya. So, keep reminding the child to be careful when someone asked her to go to a place, even if the person is already familiar.

6. Learning from the experience of friends
When friends child crime victims, there is no harm in telling the children. The story is usually going to be easy to remember. Discuss the incident with the child, including what if the child deal with the situation, what needs to be done, and so on. For example, the case of elementary school children addicted to drugs. Describe lessons learned from the children's stories, such as not eating immediately and directly report if given something by someone.

7. Tell me through books
Encourage children to recognize the world around him. Example, when invited to meet market and street children, street children tell us about, why be like that, bagiamana child must be on these kids, and what behaviors should be wary of strangers in the street. Story parents will provide diverse points of view. Knowledge of child became expands on the life around

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Teach Children Manners

Tips and Trick for Domesticity. Children need to be taught manners. All parents would agree with this. How ?

1. Make yourself as a model. Childhood is a period of imitation. Each child imitated the behavior of parents. When you speak with a mouth full of food, chances are your child will do the same.

2. Say what you want from the child. For example, on the way to my grandmother explained, "If ever there is food that you do not like, I hope you do not get it."

3. Give praise. If the child has to be polite, there is no harm in giving praise. For example if the kid thanked the friend who had lent the book, saying, "Well, your son this one was nice and polite."

4. Do not force the child to be perfect. When you expect too much from children, can-can that happen is the "war" with the child. Do it in stages, according to child development.

5. Do not embarrass the child. One is the normal thing. Similarly, if a child made a mistake that you do not polite. Tell the child faults and say what you expect. Do not just scold or embarrass him in front of others.

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4 Steps how to get children to apologize

Tips and Trick for Domesticity. The following 4 simple steps how to get children to apologize :

1. Samples
Demonstrated how the apology should say. For example, parents accidentally spilled milk children, say, "Sorry, honey, you did not accidentally spill your breasts." So was another mistake made. It is expected the child accustomed to seeing the people closest to say sorry when making mistakes.

2. Show remorse with body language
Make eye contact when saying sorry, so the child can feel the remorse that accompanied the apology. Holding hands, hugging tightly, or kissing a child would also exemplary as a parent to apologize to the body language like that. But for the
record, made it clear to him that hug and kiss regret only be given to Dad / Mom / brother / sister, while for a friend / relative / other person enough to shake hands. Body language is also effective for the toddler who has not fluent verbal
communication that can not say the word sorry.

3. Encourage responsible to
In addition to say sorry, ask children to "responsible" for the mistakes he did. For instance, he nudged his friend to fall. Well after apologizing, if his friend was wounded, ask your child handed a tissue / plaster. This as part of learning about responsibility for the mistakes made.

4. Give appreciation
After the children say the word apology, given the appreciation in the form of a compliment, like, "Well, smart, you can apologize." It is at once a reinforcement that is doing is correct and necessary to repeat again on another occasion.

IMPORTANT MESSAGE
Besides the way, parents also must teach forgiveness when word was uttered, the moment that other people trouble, harming others, breaking promises, doing the things that have been banned, do things that are not like other people, and so on.

That way, the emphasis is the message to not repeat the mistakes, not simply apologize without understanding why.

What if a child is guilty does not accustomed to apologize?
* Children are not favored in her social as unusual apologize after making a mistake. This will result in social development. Especially if this indifference brought to maturity.
* The development of emotion is not optimal due to not admit mistakes, he could not judge him by right.

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9 Fear and how to overcome Part 02

Tips and Trick for Domesticity. Others Type of fears are :
4. Fear of doctors
May have experienced something unpleasant like a shot, the child was afraid of a certain figure. Not to mention if parents diligently "threatened". Every time a child is considered naughty. "I'll injected Mrs. Doctor, if not dining out! "or" Later Mr. Mom bilangin Security, yes!

How to Overcome:
Let the child bring his favorite toy objects or when coming to the doctor so that he feels safe and comfortable. At home, parents can help by providing a tool toy doctor. Let the children live with a doll doctor's role as a patient. Regularly take children to the dentist to maintain healthy teeth. Nothing wrong also invited him as a parent or brother / sister was treated teeth. That way kids get information how and where to go for maintaining healthy teeth. Gradually her fear of doctors figure it turned into admiration.

5. Afraid of ghosts
"Hiii, there is a ghost. Come on, do not play in it!" Because of frequent threats and feared such a toddler who really do not understand at all about ghosts, so to know and fear. Could also be because he was watching a horror movie on television.

How to Overcome:
Keep children away from the spectacle of the ghost. Parents also should not have to frighten children only in his interest. It could also by buying books or viewing children's story about a ghost or witch character kind.

6. Afraid of the dark
Usually because of parents. "I was afraid, ah. See, deh, dark, right?" Fear of the dark could also be because the child has been punished by confinement in a dark room. If experience is so lasting, not
fear may not be settled until adulthood. Such a cold sweat, or even a shortness of breath every time I was in a dark room or screaming when electricity suddenly went out.

How to Overcome:
When sleep tonight, do not leave her room in the dark. At the very least, let the dim night-light burning. Another way, let your favorite doll or remain with her body, as
act as guardian until the child need not fear.

7. Scared swim
Very rarely children ages toddler afraid of water. Except if he ever experienced such unpleasant choking or even almost drowned while swimming up to his nose a lot of water conceded.

How to Overcome:
Perform a gradual habituation. For instance, let the child just beginning to soak his feet or splashing, splashed in the pool toys, still wearing bathing suits. It could also put the child into a manageable pool club expert. Or by frequently invited to swim with the relatives / friends of his age. Of course, still accompanied by and built her confidence that the swim was fun, so do not be afraid. Even if the child still afraid, do not
Never force let alone reprimand or harassing her fears. Such as, "It sucks, ah! Swim, really, scared!"

8. Afraid Insects
There was a little boy who is afraid of crickets, cockroaches or other flying insects. It really is normal, so parents should not add to frighten him, "Watch out, there'll be cockroaches, lo." Should instead be understood as a child this age may find many things that can make him afraid.

How to Overcome:
Parents should be given an introduction about the nature of animals in children. No need to overly detailed as a professor give a lecture. The task of parents to understand the extent of fear and help children feel safe. It's okay to say, "I know you are afraid of crickets." So much and not enough children being forcibly kept in a conversation about her fears. Do not force children to talk tough to face his fears. "Not yet tried out the child to see or even touch the dreaded insect. It will only make children more afraid." When imposed on, the child could even phobias in insects. Let your child is interested in itself and this usually occurs after a 2-year-old child. If the child is afraid when there are insects flying nearby, help to throw together

9. Fear Dog
Toddler reasonable given the appearance of a dog afraid of these animals was impressed with the fierce barking and looking fierce. Not to mention the habits like jumping, licking, or even pursue. The task of parents to understand and help children overcome fears.

How to Overcome:
No need to force your child keep a dog or push a child to face his fear by continuing to give 'lectures', such as "why are afraid of dogs. The dog is good." Nullify the fear the child will only make children more afraid and not impossible to end up developing a phobia is difficult to overcome.

When children are afraid and when he met a dog walk, hold hands to convince him he could safely pass the feared animal with his parents. Do not forget to keep the distance
safe from the temperament of animals is relatively unpredictable. Could also demonstrate familiarity with the dog as a pet by his employer through the story / fable. Or introduce the neighbor's dog and could not hurt to ask the owner to show how to establish intimacy with the dog without feeling afraid.

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9 Fear and how to overcome Part 01

Tips and Trick for Domesticity. Naturally, if the baby under the age of 5 years have a sense of fear. The form is also all kinds. What is clear, if he had helped to overcome fears, phobias can experience.

Fear is a natural condition that helps individuals protect themselves from hazards while providing a new experience. In some babies, her fears were still limited to specific matters such as fear of dogs, dark, or meeting strangers.

What often happens, it appeared frightened child because of his parents. For fear of something or a particular condition, without conscious parents would prohibit a child with a way to intimidate him."Watch out there are cats, then you scratched!"
As a result, children feel threatened aka insecure whenever he saw a cat. In fact, most cats will only be angry and scratch when harassed.

Form expression of fear itself can stuff. Usually through crying, screaming, hiding, or do not want to escape from their parents. Fortunately, this fear will disappear over time. When children feel secure with themselves and their environment, the fear was gone. Of course parents need support.

The problem is when the sediment and the fear that unresolved effect on the daily activities of children. Could even lead to a pathological fear. Phobias can actually aliases excessive fear of having experienced a particular event. For example, because of fear of rats, each time she saw the animal, he would scream with fear. But such cases are generally rare.

The following 9 types of fear that often experienced by infants under the age of 5 years and tips it:

1. Scared Separated (Separation Anxiety)
Children anxious to part with those closest. Especially his mother, who for the first 3 years to figure most closely. Mother figure, not always necessarily mean a biological mother, but caregivers, grandparents, father, or
anyone who is close to the child.

Stickiness child with a mother who initially seemed very thick, usually will be reduced in subsequent years. Bahkan di usia 2 tahunan, kala sudah bereksplorasi, anak akan melepaskan diri dari keterikatan dengan ibunya. That would be a problem if the mother was too protect / overprotective or hobby arrange everything, so can not entrust her child to someone else.

Such treatment will only make the mother-child attachment persisted and eventually lead to a pathological attachment to the big kids. As a result, children do not want the school, crying easily, and difficult to be persuaded
ibunya.Bahkan left when the mother went to the kitchen or the bedroom mandipun, followed by the boy continued. Trouble, right? Not to mention he was so hard to eat and have trouble sleeping if not with his mother.

How to Overcome:
Explain to your child, why she had to go / to work. So is the explanation of the time even though this age children do not fully understand the aliases do not know exactly when morning, noon, afternoon, and evening as well as an understanding of how long each such period. It would be easier if parents use language that is easily understood. Such as, "Later, when you eat the evening, Mom was home."
If you can not go home as the promised time, tell the child over the phone. Therefore, the child will continue to wait and this can actually increase the fear of children. He will continue to anxiously wonder why the mother
yet to come.

2. Afraid of going to school
It's not easy to remove the child about the time in playgroup. Therefore, he must adapt to his new environment. Yet, not all children can easily adapt. Of the parents, not a few others just not willing to take off her "school" for fear that her child fell or was pushed when playing a friend.

How to Overcome:
Parents still need to take the child to "school" because it's about conditioning. Even if in the next days there are schools being assertive only allow parents waited outside,
convey this information to the child. Teachers also must be able to attract the attention of children so as not to focus on the lack of assistance with their parents play. At the time playing with his friends He would not forget.

3. Fear of strangers
At early ages, children are going to be picked up / close to anyone. Namun di usia 8-9 bulan biasanya mulai muncul ketakutan atau sikap menjaga jarak pada orang yang belum begitu dikenalnya. This is normal because
children already understand / recognize people. He began to realize, where his parents and where other people are rarely seen.

How to Overcome
At the age of toddlers should have the fear of strangers already faded away because, after all, he had to explore. Should the child is getting enough knowledge to realize that not all strangers / are not so familiar is a threat to him.

Usually, it is because parents often frightening, so the kids behave like that. "Beware, do not deket-deket same people who do not you know. You're going kidnapped!" It's okay to parents
berhati-hati/bersikap advise children to beware of strangers, but naturally only and not by way of to frighten him.

Others types of fear will be disscuss in 9 Fear and how to overcome Part 02

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Mom was very Participate in the Physical and Emotional Growth of Children

Tips and Trick for Domesticity. MOM is everything, he was the entertainer in the sadness, the giver of hope in suffering, and the giver of strength in weakness. He was the source of love, compassion, sympathy, and forgiveness. Man who lost his mother means losing the true spirit of giving thanks and keep it non-stop.

Motherhood is very important. Since the early age of child growth and development both physically and emotionally can not be separated from the role of a mother.
Indeed it was thought, the mother is required to give full attention to the child can not go anywhere. He should be in the house and most of the day should be with his son. Clara rate, that opinion was not right anymore. The presence of accompanying the child does not mean to restrain the desire and activity of a mother. Mothers who work and want to pursue a career in the office can still give attention to the child.

A mother who works outside the home can still perform its function as a mother with a kind and gentle. While giving attention to his son, the mother was also still have a chance at achieving kerjanya.Yang important, when a child wants attention, she could fill.

When did the mother give attention to her child? And he worked and the time is very limited. The waking up that morning to the child's mother could see her face. Communicating and asked her son.

What if the mother had to leave early and not wake up the child?
Mother could give a kiss or caress in his son's head. Then whisper''if his mama would go to work first. Children must be feeling what she In the midst of busy work in the daytime, and taking the call. So children will listen to her mother's voice. If the child was able to read, she can send SMS (short message service) via cell phone. That is, the mother was still able to greet and communicate in the midst of busy life.

What did she clear the child will feel. Children feel the attention of greetings, questions and dialogue. Relationship to the child feels a closeness (attachment) can also be done at bedtime. If there is time and opportunity should the mother bring the child to sleep. Then give a time to read bedtime story. There mother's presence can be felt by the child effectively.

Conversely women who did not work and all day at home, not necessarily the child will feel the closeness. It could even be physically close, but the mother was busy themselves, such as cooking, and other homework. In between her spare time, she was more fun watching television. If such circumstances, the child will not feel the closeness even though her mother was always with her child at home.

In addition, at key moments, working mothers should took complete attention. Holidays should be baby sitter or nanny to stop caring. Holiday mothers giving full attention. It is more important quality, but quantity is also important.

Furthermore, in dealing with sick children do not panic. Therefore,
the mother must equip themselves with knowledge about the disease from mild to severe. With the knowledge will make the mother more calm when his son was sick.
Because of the panic, he added, in addition to a confused and anxious, too
impact on children. Children become fussy because of the influence of her mother's emotions are not calm. So, gentleness and patience is needed in caring for mothers of sick children.

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9 children desire

Tips and Tricks For Domesticity In fact, children have no hope to parents. They want parents who have time to spare for it, who want to share,and so forth. Too busy, that's the reason why many cliche parents who finally delivered on the affairs of the small baby sitter or adjuvant. In fact, children want their parents looking at them like that. What's more the desire that children need to know the parents?

1. Spare time
Yes, you busy outside the home, because surely the purpose of working for children as well. However, children also want you have time to spare for him. So, you have to manage smart your time. That you should set the holiday diusik no longer work with. Use this holiday time with children.

2. Affection
Needs of children not only physical needs. This often does not realize the parents are busy in carrier. They think, overflowing with children's property is sufficient. In fact, the affection and attention that you are most important to children. Form of attention should not only gifts, but with menemaninya study or play, is enough to make children happy.

3. NOT altercate
Parents sometimes do not realize, when they heighten emotions, be a problem child. Bicker in front of children so ago is no longer a problem, no matter whether the children feel depressed or not, the anger that can be important terlampiaskan. This is clearly wrong. May-be just you and your partner quarrel, but not in front of children. The psychological, this is not good for child development. Soul akan akan he was depressed and confused, who should be wrong. is His father or his mother ? Well, if problems appear, it is not completed when the children in the house or sleeping, so he does not see or hear the parents'altercate.

4. YOU DO NOT SELECT
Ninies have 2 children. Lisa and Ori. The little attention given the Ori more than Lisa. She think, the sisters will also understand that her sister the youngest. So, only if he reasonably valid way.
In fact, it is clearly wrong and does not educate. Do not occasionally distinguish between children love the one with the other children. Clearly this will make the child dinomorduakan jealous. Never make a limitation, the tooth should be more than a great love.

5. kindness
Attitude of parents who are not friends at the small akan clearly does not make children feel comfortable. And this happens very often. When parents bete and not ready to accept the return of their child's friend, there are bad attitudes. Therefore, although the mood is not comfortable, try to remain friendly disposed friends poppet. Remember, children do not receive such treatment and will struggle if their parents are so ashemed.

6. Fulfill promise
The promise is a debt that must be ditepati. This is often forgotten by the parents. They were considered trivial and does not need to feel they must always keep his promise on the poppet. Can be, forget the parents, but should avoid broken promises. Clearly, children are disappointed that culminate with the cranky and nangis action.
Never give a promise to the child, if it is only your intended joke or not seriously. You do not want, is not it, children labeled as parents liar? If you already have an appointment, should be fulfill.

7. Smart
Another thing you need to know, that children also have parents want a smart and businesslike. There must be a professor, but he always asked, you can answer it.
Give answers that make sense. Should, provide a simple and not too complicated, because it will make the children confused. In the case studies, for example, you can follow the development of the children learn from day to day, and read the lesson book. Thus, you will find a solution when the child had difficulty in learning.

8. SO FRIENDS
Relationships between parents and children are often not in harmony, because their parents make a restriction, not mengakrabkan on children with reason so that reticent children. In fact, as children, they also want parents to become not only a place to ask for or take shelter, but can also be invited to share.
It does not realize that sometimes the parents. Difficult to diffuse in the lives of children, create distance, and did not want to know the problems faced by children. From now on, try to re-arrange the relationship you and your children to be more familiar. So your position not only as parents, but also as a friend.

9. Ability Troubleshooting
Often, parents do not realize sikapnya, and complain in front of children. Your complaint also diverse, from the family's affairs until the work of the small ruffle. How does not want, this involves the child to participate in thinking that the problem you encountered. In fact, it is not necessary. Why should I share my problems with the child? What can you expect from a child that is still small and the pattern are not knowledgeable? Even if the children give opinions, you are not satisfied because it is not as you expect. So, discuss your problems with people or couples who are older and understand the problem.

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How to Muffle a Fury from Your Child

Tips and Tricks For DomesticityLatter, physical punishment are begin abandoned by parents. Beside deranged, it could influence psychology development of child.


Base on research by Dr. Muray from The Family research Laboratory, US, The Child from the cradle got the physical punishment will give occasion to be aggressive and do violence. beside that, Child will grow as a child with low selfconfindence, oppressed or priceless as mature person. Another side, most of parents do not kept under the furry. And the violence was occured unexpressly.

There are several to keep away it.

Stay in calm down,
When you angry and be afraid and uncontroll, go immediately from its situation. calm down, and keep silence for a few minutes, in order to think the alternative or solution. So many parents dropped a brick because stress effect. If the furry could not duck out, take a breath immediately as long as 10 seconds. Look for your lonely time, so many duty could make the parents didn't have much time. Always prepare your time. Such as sporting, reading, walking or praying.

Give the choise,
give the alternative of punishment. it is better than give physically punishment. The example, when your child play with his food, tell him " Stop or do not eat anything." let it him to establish his choise. it is Soft but distinct. Fed up because your child do not hear your talk ? Try different phenomenological. Stay as tall as your child. Seeing sofly his eyes. Tell him what you want. tell it with distinct intonation, in order that your child know that you are serious

have a good parents

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