October 17, 2009

When Children Ask about Sex

Tips and Trick for Domesticity. The development of information technology to make our children very easy to get information about anything, including sex. Not infrequently, they get the information freely triggers curiosity. How should parents be ?

Discussing sex with children was very strange indeed, but it is better for children if the source of information about it obtained from the parents. That way, children can understand what sexual relationship, and how to make him act on it with a reasonable portion.

Many studies conclude, how to talk about sex to children is a form of open discussion and honest. This means, parents have had to create safety for the children to talk about anything, too, since they were children. That way, when you initiate the discussion, the children do not feel middle diinterograsi by his parents. The following guidelines Prevention collected from several studies that have:

1. The time is right to begin discussions about sex to children is when they enter primary school age. This age is the age enough for children to understand the message we convey. Every time a child asks, as weird as any questions, try to react normally. Thus, the child will not feel afraid to find answers from his parents.

2. If you feel uncomfortable to start a discussion, make an adult movie or song that was caught his attention as an intermediary. Recommend whether it's a feeling in love, healthy friends with the opposite sex, and most importantly how to make decisions for yourself.

3. Make the library and religious leaders as sources of additional information the child. This will help your child get an idea, how should the opposite sex relationships, family relationships, and friendships formed. Thus, the child can understand that any relationship that exists has a sense of responsibility to respect others.

4. Limit your child interaction on the site that provide excessive information about sex. This means, parents still have to monitor that any information received by the child according to his needs

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