Showing posts with label Love. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Love. Show all posts

February 07, 2024

Trust Me, You Don't Want to Miss This: How to Keep the Trust in Your Relationship

Trust Me, You Don't Want to Miss This: How to Keep the Trust in Your Relationship
How to Keep the Trust in Your Relationship
Tips and Tricks on Domesticity So, you're in a relationship. Maybe you're head over heels in love, or perhaps you've been together for years and are now married with a growing family. No matter where you are in your journey, one thing is for certain – trust is the foundation that holds every relationship together. Trust is like the glue that keeps all the pieces intact, and without it, everything can fall apart.


Maintaining trust in a relationship is crucial, but it's not always easy. Life throws curveballs, emotions fluctuate, and doubts can creep in. However, if you're committed to nurturing your bond, rest assured that there are ways to keep trust alive and thriving. In this article, we'll explore some of those strategies and help you breathe new life into your relationship.

February 06, 2024

Lost and Found : How to Rebuild Trust in Your Relationship

Lost and Found : How to Rebuild Trust in Your Relationship

Tips and Tricks on Domesticity , Love is a beautiful thing, but it's not always smooth sailing. In every relationship, there will come a time when trust gets lost along the way. It could be due to a broken promise, a lie, or even an affair. Whatever the cause, rebuilding trust is essential for the survival and growth of your relationship. So, if you find yourself in a situation where trust has been shattered, fear not! In this article, we will guide you on how to rebuild trust in your relationship, piece by piece.

February 05, 2024

Letting Go and Growing Up: How to Foster Independence in Your Children

Letting Go and Growing Up: How to Foster Independence in Your Children

Tips and Tricks on Domesticity , Hey there, parents! Parenthood is a beautiful journey filled with many ups and downs. One of the biggest challenges we face as parents is finding a balance between nurturing our children and letting them spread their wings to fly independently. It's that bittersweet moment when the training wheels come off, and we realize they're not our little babies anymore, but rather young individuals ready to conquer the world. So, how do we foster independence in our children? Let's dive into this exciting topic!

January 24, 2024

Explore Emotional Connections Outside of Committed Relationship

Explore emotional connections outside of committed relationship

Hey there ! Let's dive into the realm of relationships and love, shall we? We often tend to think of emotional connections solely within the confines of committed relationships, but the truth is, there are various other avenues for exploring these connections. In this article, we'll take a casual stroll through the world of emotional connections outside of committed relationships.

First things first, let's establish that relationships come in all shapes and sizes. They can be romantic, platonic, familial, or even professional. Love, too, can manifest itself in different forms. It's not solely restricted to romantic love, but can encompass love for friends, family, pets, hobbies, passions, and beyond.

January 19, 2024

Navigating the Baby Blues : A Real Mom's Guide to Finding Peace

Navigating the Baby Blues : A Real Mom's Guide to Finding Peace

Tips and Trick for Domesticity . Hey there! Are you a soon-to-be mommy or know someone who is expecting? Well, buckle up because today we're going to talk about a topic that doesn't receive as much attention as it deserves: baby blues syndrome. Now, before we dive into the nitty-gritty details, let's keep the vibe casual and stress-free. After all, we're here to help and provide some useful tips to ensure a smooth pregnancy and a healthy start to parenthood!
 

October 20, 2009

Years of Turbulent Marriage

Tips and Trick for Domesticity. Marriage coveted lifetime of each pair is not easy to come by. And will need to struggle with the husband and wife to continue to keep it from year to year. Following years of marriage prone to watch.

FIRST TWO YEARS: FULL OF STRUGGLE

This is the years that indicates whether the couple "newlyweds" could survive in the following years. Many who succeeded beyond it, not a few who decided to get divorced, too. Because, in reality this is actually started. Each side saw the real, who partner.

Be prepared to accept what is called depression newlyweds. After the party, the couple took his own home and learn to live independently as a husband and wife. This is where the division of roles and cooperation starts. There are smooth, some are not. Many things are a priority that must be resolved together. About
money, for example, who should regulate. Also how to spend leisure time together, handling in-laws, the laws and other extended family. Infants born later will make the whole rhythm of the father and mother changed. Clearly, it caused anxiety challenge.

In order to survive and go smoothly, in the first years of this couple should have already started discussing about how to solve problems in case of conflicts, also discussed the expectations of each party.

Couples who can get through this period are those who always have a positive view of her partner, do not give up easily, and will together find a way out in every issue. Although the first years are difficult, they will still remember him as the first years of full intimacy, affection, and mutual learning. It is also important, can be valuable lessons and experience to take the following years.

SEVEN YEARS: MUST WASPADA

Ever hear the term "the seven years Itch"? This is the seventh year that makes "itch". After many years together, the couple had started to find patterns and rhythms of the more obvious marriage. However, the desire each of which is readable and physical closeness and emotional is not guaranteed that the intimacy and intimacy continued.

After seven years in pairs, many married couples begin to get stuck in a routine housekeep. Husband and wife also got busy with their own affairs. Mother taking care of children who started school and growing up, my father, too busy struggling with the increasingly promising career. Not to mention the demands of the growing needs of large families, making increasingly busy father with additional work that can make money.

All that have consequences in the marriage relationship. Because each of busy, time to be alone diminished. As a result, the intimacy was threatened. Even more worrying, since each busy with his own affairs and all things running routine, the more intimate relationship sebagaihal routine visits only for biological needs it. No longer an expression intimacy and affection. If not careful, each party may feel hot and itchy, like people who are trapped. Just a little temptation or see new things more exciting outside the home, threatened to make a commitment.

That is why many an affair or infidelity that occurs after 5 or 7 years of marriage. The couple tried to get out of the things that make it saturated. Among other things, a relationship with someone entirely new.

To keep the passion and intimacy remains lit, do a second honeymoon, revision and re-marriage relationship intimacy what patterns can be applied, according to the age of marriage. Do not expect too much of that in a short time everything will change like a new bride. What is important is the desire to remain committed and renew intimacy.


FIFTEEN YEARS: hectic

In the fifteenth year, emotionally and physically, the closeness of husband and wife getting stronger. Many problems can be settled, such as the house was bought and established the family finances. But the next challenge came in this year. Just like previous years, problems that arise are more saturation. Plus family togetherness is also diminishing. For example, children who entered pre teens, start hanging out more outside the home, and busy with school affairs. Father was at the peak of his career, as well as working mothers.

No wonder if in the early years is easy to make an appointment to have dinner with the couple in a romantic restaurant, now even hard. It's hard to ask him to spend time romancing because preoccupations.
Physical changes of each party, for example, widened body shape or wrinkle on the face of increasingly visible, also gave birth to their own anxiety. Each was no longer attractive and sexy in the eyes of their partner. And inadequate sense arises. Couples no longer fears aroused, can lead to an intimate relationship. Most feel insecure is realized by refusing when asked to cuddling. In fact, because each party had so long slept in one bed, must have known their partner's body. So, the problem really should not be obstacles in having sex. In fact, because the emotional attachment grew stronger, able to make intimate relationships become more solid.
Indeed, hell, do not imagine an intimate relationship with the same frequency with a new bride. But that must be remembered, no longer the number, but the quality. Although in one month can be counted on the fingers, do different variations to give an update. Begin giving surprises sweet, such as sending SMS to his wife, "What if we meet this evening in the hotel x and spent the night without the kids?"

Later years

Simone Signoret, famous writer from France, in one of his novels to write, "The chain does not bind the marriage, but the chain's eyes. Hundreds of crocheted chain every day together, which binds continued for years. That's what makes a marriage survive, not the passion and even the sex! "
Thus, although 5, 10, even 25 years of marriage had passed safely, never complacent. There, lo, a new month anniversary of marriage to 25, then divorced. What article? Proximity sometimes make us complacent. We feel already know what the needs of couples. In fact, every human being is always needed refreshment and the surprises in his life. Included in her marriage.

Although the marriage seems perfect, there's no harm to sit down together every year, such as wedding anniversary, to look back, what was actually escaped the attention of both the concerns about the husband-wife relationship. Are we sensitive to the needs of the couple? Model tenderness and intimacy. what we want, along with the marriage age ? What
a lump or a constraint on all the things that can interfere with the relationship? Well, all that should be reviewed again, no matter how old your marriage. No one can guarantee forever will run smoothly, if each party complacent and indifferent to the situation that seems perfect marriage, but to save time bomb. Now know what to do?

October 16, 2009

8 Habits that Could Ruin Relationships

Tips and Trick for Domesticity. Not infrequently a broken relationship just because a small custom made by one of the couple. Relationship is very tight and could not be separated can fall apart because of problems that are considered "insignificant". Glamor magazine properties register anything that can trigger your rift and the he. This list;

1. Can not accept
Your lover wants to get the best out of him is a good thing. However, do not you want to make changes in the husband up to his appearance. Try to accept what he's there. If this is what is to him so badly and it was time to change, then try to say it nicely. Do not criticize or force you to change drastically. Because the messages he would receive was, "You're not good enough for me."

Try to enforce rules 80-20. That is, when you're with him, express what you admire about him, do this as much as 80 percent. Until when you say things you do not like about it, then it will not sound as one of the worst points in the list of your eyes.

2. Volatile mood
We live in an age that makes people nervous. No wonder when the stress hit, we can be angry-angry at the couple. In everyday life, the sudden mood changes can be forgiven. However, imagine if we lived with the couple who often experience mood swings (a drastic mood changes). You must be running away. Well, if you feel you are experiencing periods of mood swings (usually towards menstruation), try to divert your mind from the things that can make you want to be angry.

3. Gossip
Nobody wants to be gossip. So, when you're there is the problem with him, try to try to solve it in an adult. Try reducing the desire to tell every detail of your problem with your spouse or friends to the nearest parent. Not only will you be embarrassed when the fight was over, but you also will make the he felt betrayed. As a partner, you'll want to keep a secret between you and him alone rather than damage your reputation and your partner in the eyes of others.

4. Melodrama
If you consistently call every time a friend of the office that makes you pissed off, remove them from your friends list on Facebook, or threatening to break every time there is a difference of opinion, do not be surprised if he was looking for another woman. It is exhausting if we should always try to calm the couple who likes to dramatize the situation at any time.

5. So the second mother
Your husband must love his mother, and she must love you. However, when you treat every day like a child, then you will make him want to run away from you. Children tend to do the opposite of what he was told his parents, when the command did not want him to do. This also applies to life coupled with the type of relationship as mother-child (who is too cuddle).

6. Too often with
Spend time with your loved ones is one of the advantages of dealing, but there is a difference with a relationship of conjoined twins. Many men interested in women independent and confident. However, often the woman who originally had the character changed 180 degrees as a partner. Women can be very dependent, and requires a very much from each other. Occasionally take the time to your own or with your friends. Let him enjoy his time alone. Do you know what the benefits of enjoying "me time" like this? You so often miss the him, but so have to talk.

7. Jealousy
Although he often reminds you how much he loves you, but it did not stop to check your cell phone when he was in the shower. Or, constantly pouting every time she looked beautiful. Little jealousy is sometimes necessary in a relationship. But accusing him of having an affair or bombarded with questions every time he went alone too, will create world's most patient person screaming. Check once again, lest you envy against the him are unfounded.

8. Too comfortable
At the beginning of a relationship, both parties must make sure to find a way to be the best. However, over time and routine, we tend to be lazy and do not want to try to keep warm relationship. Humans love to be wooed and seduced, just like you, too. The fun of a relationship is finding new things from the couple and trying new things with him. When a woman stops to try to show the best of himself to the couple, the man will feel that their partner no longer love it. Show your partner that he is still very valuable in your eyes. How to provide nice surprises for him. He will appreciate your efforts and tried to repay

October 07, 2009

Between Love and Crazy

Tips and Trick for Domesticity. It is difficult to distinguish between true love and the love that was crazy when someone is falling in love. Sometimes so many people fall into the real meaning of love .. For that understand the meaning of love in order not to hurt when her loss. Consider the following ;
Love is something that started from a friendship that continues to grow every day. Therein, physical attraction is only one aspect of shared feelings. Something that teaches you to be patient and plan for the future with confidence and not in a hurry.

Love is something that involves understanding and willingness to accept him and any shortcomings. When the two people involved in it can be themselves and feel comfortable with each other. Something that involves honesty, respect and trust.

In the love there is no suspicion that there is only a sense of calm and safe. Something that always gives you the strength to face anything. Something given and received. When you still feel close to the couple, despite being far away.

Love is also something that can still be balanced with other aspects of life than relationships. Something where they can deal with both good and difficult times between them. Something that makes you think and see beyond. In short, love makes you become a better person.

While love is crazy about instant passion that will last over time. Something that is very involving interest. When you're together, which is expected to last hanyalan intimitas.

Something that involves not only suspicion, but also do not believe in the couple or to themselves. Something that makes us take a hasty decision. When you always have the feeling of insecurity that you will lose your partner someday.

There was never satisfied with your partner and feel disturbed by various shortcomings. Something that makes you feel anxious and stressed when he's not with you. Something that makes you feel happy and excited, but not happy in real sense. Something that can make you do t hings that you regret later, do not like love. So where is the love you feel today?