September 30, 2009

Tips and Accurate Face The Jealous

Tips and Trick for Domesticity. Having a partner is of course a very pleasant thing. But if the he often acted jealous, would gradually it will make us hot. It is true, jealousy is a sign of love, but do not behave in the way of our steps to move forward due to the behavior of our partners started toward possessive !

1. Understand the situation
Ask what made him feel uncomfortable. For example you act like what makes him feel uncomfortable. Who knew it was the response that you do all this with the opposite sex seemed a bit excessive, it could be material for your own reflection.

2. Confidence Push it
Reassure him that you do love her, and that He is a great guy your eyes. It was his nature, he always wants to feel good and needed. Make sure also that you will remain faithful even defended him apart.

3. Build Communications
The key of a relationship is communication. Get used to always be honest and open. No Hide problems, and point out what you feel. If you feel disturbed by the attitude of jealousy that began to bother, say, frankly, because after all you are entitled to get a sense of comfort in your relationship.

4. Sensitive feelings
Do not provoke an atmosphere that can make him jealous, for example, talk about your past with the ex or keep your friends talking about the opposite sex.

Jealous sign of love? It is true because both think it comes naturally and at the same time, but if jealousy had begun to bring suffering and interfere with your steps to move forward, there is no other way except to end your relationship. Be realistic, the future is waiting for you, do not waste it and believe that you deserve the best for yourself !

September 29, 2009

Error correction on the bed

Tips and Trick for Domesticity. Have you ever had sex with your partner, but you feel there is still jammed in the heart every time after sex ? Not every mistake ever made love is always on the men, sometimes women did. Try to fix before it's too late.


As experienced by Andri, 32 years old, an executive who has been married for two years. He felt his wife, Sinta has done everything he wanted in sex. But sometimes he was disturbed by the movement is often done outside the control Sprott. Like hip movements are not controlled, even with a strong grip to him only made him uncomfortable. There is a desire to communicate his grievances to Sprott, but feared his wife Andri offended. All this time he just thought Sprott maybe too excited. No doubt, if it is kept buried, can cause problems in having sex.

It is time to be reminded or corrected in any case, not everyone can accept. As if it's uncomfortable, feeling stupid or inexperienced. But the correction is not always bad. Especially in the context of an intimate relationship with your partner. An input is needed to improve sexual life and your relationships.

Sexual desire between men and women differently. Men more easily aroused only through the visual. While women are not quite the view, but also through touch, hearing, or by sweet words. Emotional factors needed in building female libido.

Increased male sexual response is more rapid, and peak after ejaculation straight down. In contrast, female sexual response after a longer and improved, will be stable until orgasm and still survive. This difference is often less recognized. As a result, there was a misunderstanding between the two. However, an input can be constructive. This depends on how the shape and how to greet paikannya. If you live without feeling that your partner game on a bad bed, maybe you'll get a little time and trouble ahead for sure.

Do not directly criticize your partner when making love last. Had feared could happen is your partner's sexual arousal drop immediately. Then, when she lost her passion, of course, boost libido who have built can be lost. As a result women could become frustrated and lose lubrication in the vaginal fluid. If you impose an intimate relationship continued, gradually the negative effects of your partner will reject any invitation to have sex.

When the woman realized and your spouse are not easily take offense at your words, then do not be a problem. Unfortunately, not all women easily accept input from any male partner. It's good, your input is wrapped into something beautiful, polite, and be accepted. Perhaps the following tips can you try?

1. Wrong Position
A woman on top is something interesting. Unless you feel tormented by anatomical errors. As freedom and her wild side came when he was "riding", you are probably aware that the movement was doing too powerful. Or, the movement was less flexible, so you feel pressure on the corners or your body was unbearable. When this happens, you can reach to stop the movement of her hips or pulled forward to get a better angle delicious.

Both actions are very good, as long as you do because you feel less comfortable and maintain the moment without criticizing him verbally. You can continue to restrain movement of her hips to help your riding. Generally, women love hip held it tightly. If the problem still occurs, you can make him aware of his mistake through moan moan or sigh when he was in the position you like. Including speed when driving to your liking. Surely he will realize all the "sign" it.

2. Racked Oral Sex
Finally he was willing to do sexual activities during your dreams. But instead of pleasure, instead you feel miserable. Painful oral game, ignoring the technical and intensely pleasurable sensations for men. What steps should you take to improve this situation? How do I get the sensation blow job and an intimate partner are more active?

Think about how the delivery and implementation. For this one thing you need to discuss thoroughly. He would not know what you do not like, unless you say it. But how this is a real problem. Try not to make the movement suddenly or increase your volume when you explain what you liked or disliked.

Continued to support every effort in a way to let him know what you love to efforts that have been done. Then, ask him if he was willing to try another way. Whatever you do, do not forget to express "appreciation" for all the efforts you are doing without a word. This can be through gesture, caress, gaze, kiss, etc. clan. This will create confidence and increasing interest in exploring further.

3. Strong Grip
Hand jobs are great for men, especially when not done alone but by the couple. But if he was holding too tightly, as though your property will feel squeezed or even withdrawn, become unpleasant ways. So, gently and carefully laid teach fingers well. Do not squeeze your partner tapering fingers, but rather give a hug and a soft caress on both hands before you put them in a comfortable position. Furthermore, it's your turn to be a guide in accordance with your wishes.

4. He faked
Do you feel just to be a single player? Your partner's body is in front of the eyes, but he did not budge and give a response. She might respond to your base to do business, but he did not respond. If you feel like you've tried every way but your partner still does not respond, it would not hurt if you try to "ask" right.

If he did not respond and feel tense, it must be something wrong. It's good, after sex ask him if he was okay, or if something was jammed in thought or felt. Fear or anxiety are also not be forgotten. Maybe he was uncomfortable with all the action you take. Or related to his past disturbing. The various problems associated with disorders of sex is nothing to talk about you both.

If he had tried and appreciate the attention you give, but did not provide any lead batik, you should ask him to do something more specific. You can also ask for a polite and gentle, to put his hand in the position you like. You can also try to change the position of a woman on top, or any other position that you are more like than the current position.

5. Kissing The Bad
Almost as a fingerprint, every kiss is a unique and individual. There is enough just to kiss on the forehead, or suck on each other, until the French kiss. If the types of kisses made unforgettable memories, finally, there was a kiss that you never want. So what led to your liking?

First, identify your own style of kissing. Are you too aggressive, too forward until it touches your face with it, or pressing the neck makes uncomfortable feelings? If you feel your kissing style was not a problem, ask yourself, what you want from your partner. If you believe this step is too smooth, reduce and slow down your kiss.

Try to set how quickly the tempo and give examples kiss you like. Make a kissing game. Make your partner when you kiss her still, it's up to what style you want. Then on the other hand, ask him to kiss in accordance with what he wanted. This is not a difficult thing, but try. Play with pleasure. As long as you feel good, he slowly will enjoy the spirit of this game

6. Painful massage
Although he meant well, unfortunately his idea to give massage should make you relax, it actually makes you run away from the bed. Do not remove your desire to get a sensual massage. Next time, when he was offered a massage with her soft hands all over your body, tell which part feels good. Ask him to concentrate on the parts, you want to be massaged, kneaded, and spoiled.

Express feelings of comfort and relaxation when you feel a gentle hand massage your body. Be specific, why pijatannya feels good. He will understand that you love the gentle pressure or massage to play. Give her massages, and also show what you love when you touch her body. He can catch all your desires by your hand movements.

In essence, talk about it all together with your partner. Perform communication between you and your partner well before having sex, or afterplay. Do things that you love a woman's partner. Do not be forced. Give appreciation with a thank you or question, whether he likes sex just done? Participation and equality is needed in this conversation. Do not you be more dominant so impressed imperative or too patronizing. Instead, each other open to listening to what each desires.

One of the interesting things to have fun with your partner, many of the lessons learned by example and make it a game. No need to hurt him with criticism. In fact, you can easily share a laugh and understand each other. Trying to learn with each other will be better than being frustrated and shut down each other. Try it, then your sex life will lead to a better direction.

September 28, 2009

10 Seconds Eliminate Stress

Tips and Trick for Domesticity. As women work to pursue targets or deadlines, stress easily come by anytime. When you deal with the evaluation of the owner company you work for, nor should first presentation in front of the board of directors, so many things that can make you nervous and stressful. If you can not handle it, you can stress and all you had planned to fall apart.

Then to do? Actually not difficult to cope with stress. There is quick and easy way to make your stay calm in a world full of 'surprises' this. Each in this way only takes about 10 seconds.

Yoga positions
When stressed, the body will be stiff, and breathing becomes difficult. Therefore, combine both hands as if you want to pray in the back. Pull your shoulders and your head back, then pull a deep breath.

Streching - streching
Make more of your sitting, straighten your body in the chair. Lift your right leg and place your right ankle on your left knee. You lean forward and pull as far as you can. Do it alternately with your left leg. This movement will make your hip muscles more relaxed.

Go Nuts !
Grazing is one way to reduce stress. But for this activity does not add stress to your new due weight to be up, replace snacks 'fried' becomes just nuts. Nuts contain tryptophan and magnesium high. Two ingredients are very useful to produce serotonin, a hormone that can provide a sense of calm so that the stress is resolved.

Ear stroking
Not only Ciko, your pet golden retriever who likes his ears scratched. This activity also applies to humans. According Ayuverda, the teachings of Indian life that has existed since 5000 years ago, the ears are marma points - a kind of nerve points as acupuncture, which has relationships with other body parts. Here's how: just scratching a circle on your ears, each with his right hand and left as you stress.

Aromatherapy
Aromatherapy has a calming effect and can make you relax. Aromatherapy that you can use are lavender, lemon balm, chamomile and geranium. Here's how: Take a cotton ball, and tetesi with aromatherapy. Put in place a strategic wind flow. Every time the wind blows. Aromatherapy will be wafted into the room and make you more relaxed.

Vitamin C
Unmistakable. In addition to improving immune system, researchers at the University of Alabama also said that vitamin C can also reduce stress hormones in the blood. The study suggests 1000 mg dose of vitamin C.

Laughing
According to a study at the University of California, laughter increases the production of anti-stress hormones that can last up to 24 hours. No need to criticize other people to laugh, you can stimulate your laughter by reading funny comic, read the joke of the day, or a mirror with a strange expression on his face until you feel amused themselves.

Be in the moment
Focus on what you face today, and use all your senses to relate to your environment. Jay Winner, MD, author of Take the Stress Out of Your Life gives an example when you eat lunch, take the smell and feel the food in your mouth for 10 seconds. "Take 10 seconds and let the sensation of food is entered in your mind," advises Dr. Jay. Another example is the recommended walking barefoot on the ground and feel when your feet touch the earth.

September 27, 2009

Condition of Destroyer warmth in bed

Tips and Trick for Domesticity. Women generally love to imagine a romantic ceremony with their beloved ones in the bedroom, unfortunately, not always beautiful images it happen because there are some conditions that occur. I wonder what conditions it can damage the atmosphere of the bedroom? Here she is ....

1. Bad breath.
Generally admitted women would not return when the couple kiss from the mouth smelled very unpleasant and very sharp nose.

Surely, this incident never experienced by most women. For that, the solution is to always provide the mint-flavored candy next to the bed. So, when he started a petition and you do not want to lose the passion for the smell of his mouth, then pretend as if you lack confidence and need the candy. If he sees you eat sweets, it is expected he will understand what you mean and not eat candy. And passed a subtle way when the smell of her mouth was not unbearable, for example by saying "Very often the hell, I smell garlic on your breath after every meal. I also was possible, huh? "Words like this should be enough to make him understand.

2. When Mr. P limp helpless.
This is experienced by most women. They complain that most of Mr. P failed to last long. The woman suspect, if this problem due to the lack of stimulation in couples, the goal is too small, or a medical problem.

You need to know in advance that the situational problems of young men who disturbed the erection process than that, stress, drinking alcohol, and drugs is also a risk factor for men to be not "mighty".

However, do not you then blame yourself when a case like this happen. You Labih good looking the other way, like saying, "Tomorrow we do another way to make it more exciting," to your partner, squeezing sensitive body parts with tenderness. It was to show that the taste you love unshakable by the broken erection in the middle of the road.

3. When paired they stimulate the sensitive harshly.
Women often do not know how to say what they really want, when they mate often makes a pain-sensitive areas when stimulated by loud.

Every woman is different from each other, so no one else man who knows exactly what you want mate if not notified. Well, the best way to show it is by giving verbal feedback to him. Well, of course, saying things like, "Yes there is a bit up again", or tell him where you want to be stimulated. Or for more details, namely by putting your hand in the hand or on his body as he moved to the one you like. For men, it will help you for a little leave egoism your man. Surely the result will taste good, while your lover is thinking of all his idea.

4. Miss V was suddenly dry.
Most women often feel kenyerian on her sex organ when having sex with a partner. This incident can be said often enough when you feel passionate enough, but Miss V did not wet enough to pave the way for Mr enter. P, and you often become irritated if it is disturbing sex pleasure. You must be quick on this one issue. You need to know that the cause of the lack of lubrication fluids include stress, drugs and the use of contraceptives. When this happens, then you should extend the foreplay while to see if you're ready to begin again. Do not until you become infected. Another way is to use a liquid lubricant from the basic ingredients of water, or postpone penetration.

Sexual activity would not take place at any time made, there are many methods to try. Therefore, use every opportunity to experiment with new techniques. Surely you will enjoy it more.

5. Too hasty.
Usually when men make love always do it with the passionate and satisfying their partners. But when a man has an orgasm, will immediately stop limp. Meanwhile the woman had to sweat a bit, but could not do and say anything to him.

For that, let's just excitement quickly as a flash for your compliments. Keep in mind that premature ejaculation occurs in certain situations and usually occurs in people who first had sexual intercourse.

Therefore, a good way to deal with it is to tell your partner that you've just turned on and ask him to continue doing / touching you. To be sure, do not make him feel guilty, and do not be upset because your passion is not accomplished. Ask your partner manually stimulated, by hand or mouth until you reach the climax. That way, he will feel its job well.

6. Pretending to reach climax.
Many people are still difficult to reach a climax, while her partner was doing my best stimulation in sensitive areas. Worse yet, they often do not inform their partners and fake orgasms.

Such actions are wrong. You do not have to fake orgasms when not really feel it. For some people, especially women, orgasm is felt not so important anymore if they enjoyed the time they clash. Above all, when you do not want to disturb it during lovemaking. Or afraid of your partner hurt.

You do not need to shy and afraid to tell him. And when asked him to do other ways such as oral sex to make you orgasm. Say, "I want to be kissed on the here a little longer," to him. But, if this still does not help, then whispered in his ear that you want to see it reach the top. Create a comfortable of sexual activity may by subsequent emphases. The activity was not solely for the purpose of orgasm, but that you be able to better enjoy the time to do it naturally. And without any obligation to take you to the top.

September 26, 2009

Maintaining Age Wedding Tips

Tips and Trick for Domesticity. Married life until the end of life, happy and having children is the desire of married couples. No couples who want a divorce in their household. It has become common news in the current era, if a newly married couple a few months, then came the news of their divorce.

"It could be their decision to get married, you are only limited to be able to settle down and could have a pair just ..."
"But not because based on a deep sense of love and desire to live forever with your partner ..."

Desire "false" is a very fatal if not immediately be aware of and you correct from the start. Divorce is often painful for the parties involved, including the children. Divorce also can cause stress and trauma to start a new relationship with the opposite sex.

Here are some tips that may help couples married as long as possible to maintain their marriage age:

1. Communication Two Directions
Familiarize you and your partner communicate, both when in the house or when you're far apart
. If there is a problem, should be discussed when you or your partner are relaxed. Domestic disharmony usually originated from the lack of two-way communication between husband and wife. Each store each problem that they seemed to walk alone despite being under one roof.

2. Openness Sex Questions
Sexual problems was also the cause of divorce. Maybe people often forget that sexual function in addition to procreation of offspring, as well as for recreation or pleasure, and "expression of love".
Whereas many couples admitted having sexual relations can eliminate the tension after a hard day. In fact, to avoid boredom, it could not hurt to have sex other than in bed. You can do it in the kitchen, living room, even in the garage. But remember, what you want in sex should be communicated with your partner. And vice versa.

3. Accepting It Is
When a man and woman had shared a room and sedapur, each character will look original. Seduction rag did not reappear as when dating. There are only two people who had to adjust to each other .. This is where the real marriage. You and your partner learn to recognize individual differences. Some things that are a stumbling block in the relationship of husband and wife, are differences of perception, insight, and value. Including religious differences, cultural backgrounds, and personality. However, the differences could be overcome if only to try to understand each other and self introspection. Most couples who succeed in creating harmony until old age are those who managed to build together.
New unity is created when the couple managed to cultivate the spirit of sacrifice, not selfish, and have a sense of mutual understanding.

4. Do not Make a habit of Lying
Have your partner asked in detail if you are still busy until the evening meeting with business clients who turned out pretty or handsome, smart and attractive ? Well, usually, so that your partner is not too much to ask and you will be reluctant if it appears an argument, you are actually lying. You just say different things for good reasons.

You need to know that this is included in a lie that can be will continue until you and your spouse will be married to live a lie. So that it does not happen, uttered with a calm attitude that what you are doing is just business.


5. Do not Jealous Overstated
Many say that jealousy is the spice of household relationship. Okay, that's fine ! But that does not mean you or your partner could be jealous blind. Nothing new that a lot of disputes happen because of jealousy, which more often stems from misinterpretation and lack of openness.

For example, at one point because of the demands of work, the husband should ask his secretary out of town. The wife who only heard half the story from someone else, could easily accuse her husband was having an affair. And if only the wife and husband would ask to open, or previously introduced his secretary to his wife, could be another problem.


6. Avoid molester
The affair usually happens because each did not want to open each other or listen to what their partner complained. "For example, the husband was angry because every time she came, she was not at home ..!!" But the complaint was not delivered, or is expressed but not heard, or the wife did not want to change his habits.

An affair can also occur because the couple alone, rarely feel sexual pleasure or temptation from the outside like the nuances of erotic entertainment, siren and others. To resolve the dispute or adultery, which should be done first is to find the root permasalahnnya, then sought to be avoided or eliminated.

7. Look for The Third As Intercessor
If you find problems and strife arises between you and your partner, find a third person as mediator. People can like Kyai religious leaders or clergy, and community leaders who have broad knowledge and wise and psychologists. Search this better than your gripe with relatives, neighbors or your friends .. !

8. Stay intimate
In order for your relationship and your partner still tender, throw away all the perception that the romance is only worth it while still dating. Basically, the romance is the right of every person, regardless of age or status.

9. Give To The Above
Sometimes, excessive emotions arise when your problem and your partner reveals to the surface. Give yourself and pray To the Almighty Creator is a great way to diredamkan emotions and problems can be solved properly.

September 25, 2009

Pollution in Marriage

Tips and Trick for Domesticity. As well as the polluted environment if we are careless because they do not care, it turns out we can also create pollution for marriage through deeds and words are negative. In fact, we should take care. But do not forget, to take care also needed a breakthrough considering the dynamic nature of marital relationships with new experiences and problems.

You can see and study the pollution-pollution that can negatively impact both how to clean it to be able to keep your marriage relationship is always healthy.

1. Lazy
Laziness is the main enemy of marriage. This behavior makes you just live it alone until you both forgot to do the things that should be made more intimate marriage. Naturally, in line with the increasing age of marriage, you both feel comfortable. But not many couples are realizing, more and more to spend time together, the less concern you on the new things that refreshing out there that if done it can enliven the marriage. You felt it was "knowing the same to know" that either forget or lazy, no longer thought of a romantic surprise or compelling show to attract couples.

Solution :
It's time you and your partner apply immediately rose and active! Make the things that make your partner know how much still loved him with sincere and crazy about her. Show also that you want it, need attention and want to do many things with him. Find a place that can be enjoyed together, as two of your favorite vacation spot. If it had been doing their own hobbies, find a new hobby to do together.

2. Argument
Not the argument that a pollutant, but how do you both arguments when there is a difference of opinion. The argument is reasonable and necessary because often it can make you both become closer. Through argument, you and your partner learn that every person often has different ways of thinking. Each can use these differences to better understand one another. Then in the end mutual respect also leads us to be more wise with each other. Unfortunately, most of the arguments made in a negative manner, such as yelling at each other which merely aim to put forward their respective egos.

Solution :
Please note that the argument is not a bad thing in a marriage. But the argument in a healthy marriage seeking convergence and compromise that could please all parties. So, you both need to learn, when he was about to argue, have a heart and an open mind in order to find a solution.

3. Rejection
Rejection is a very disturbing toxic marriage. Many of us are as "blind" that the relationship was no longer in a healthy marriage. We tried to circumvent that everything was fine, so we shut out what really happened. Relations in marriage, because it is dynamic, there's always ebb and flow. Sometimes the challenge and problem that can be painful and cause anger. Leaving aside the problem will actually make the problem itself bigger until your relationship really at risk. Problems and challenges will always arise, but the new solution can be found if you both acknowledge that there is.

Solution :
Be realistic and accept the fact that the problems and challenges in a marriage can always come along with the love that remains attached to one another. Recognizing this can help you both better prepared to accept that the problem was coming and find a solution. If you both want to continue with, of course, what is needed is a strong team all the time, when crumpled or happy. Let's just say that the opposite is the problem, so always be sought in ways that can overcome the problem.