September 27, 2009

Condition of Destroyer warmth in bed

Tips and Trick for Domesticity. Women generally love to imagine a romantic ceremony with their beloved ones in the bedroom, unfortunately, not always beautiful images it happen because there are some conditions that occur. I wonder what conditions it can damage the atmosphere of the bedroom? Here she is ....

1. Bad breath.
Generally admitted women would not return when the couple kiss from the mouth smelled very unpleasant and very sharp nose.

Surely, this incident never experienced by most women. For that, the solution is to always provide the mint-flavored candy next to the bed. So, when he started a petition and you do not want to lose the passion for the smell of his mouth, then pretend as if you lack confidence and need the candy. If he sees you eat sweets, it is expected he will understand what you mean and not eat candy. And passed a subtle way when the smell of her mouth was not unbearable, for example by saying "Very often the hell, I smell garlic on your breath after every meal. I also was possible, huh? "Words like this should be enough to make him understand.

2. When Mr. P limp helpless.
This is experienced by most women. They complain that most of Mr. P failed to last long. The woman suspect, if this problem due to the lack of stimulation in couples, the goal is too small, or a medical problem.

You need to know in advance that the situational problems of young men who disturbed the erection process than that, stress, drinking alcohol, and drugs is also a risk factor for men to be not "mighty".

However, do not you then blame yourself when a case like this happen. You Labih good looking the other way, like saying, "Tomorrow we do another way to make it more exciting," to your partner, squeezing sensitive body parts with tenderness. It was to show that the taste you love unshakable by the broken erection in the middle of the road.

3. When paired they stimulate the sensitive harshly.
Women often do not know how to say what they really want, when they mate often makes a pain-sensitive areas when stimulated by loud.

Every woman is different from each other, so no one else man who knows exactly what you want mate if not notified. Well, the best way to show it is by giving verbal feedback to him. Well, of course, saying things like, "Yes there is a bit up again", or tell him where you want to be stimulated. Or for more details, namely by putting your hand in the hand or on his body as he moved to the one you like. For men, it will help you for a little leave egoism your man. Surely the result will taste good, while your lover is thinking of all his idea.

4. Miss V was suddenly dry.
Most women often feel kenyerian on her sex organ when having sex with a partner. This incident can be said often enough when you feel passionate enough, but Miss V did not wet enough to pave the way for Mr enter. P, and you often become irritated if it is disturbing sex pleasure. You must be quick on this one issue. You need to know that the cause of the lack of lubrication fluids include stress, drugs and the use of contraceptives. When this happens, then you should extend the foreplay while to see if you're ready to begin again. Do not until you become infected. Another way is to use a liquid lubricant from the basic ingredients of water, or postpone penetration.

Sexual activity would not take place at any time made, there are many methods to try. Therefore, use every opportunity to experiment with new techniques. Surely you will enjoy it more.

5. Too hasty.
Usually when men make love always do it with the passionate and satisfying their partners. But when a man has an orgasm, will immediately stop limp. Meanwhile the woman had to sweat a bit, but could not do and say anything to him.

For that, let's just excitement quickly as a flash for your compliments. Keep in mind that premature ejaculation occurs in certain situations and usually occurs in people who first had sexual intercourse.

Therefore, a good way to deal with it is to tell your partner that you've just turned on and ask him to continue doing / touching you. To be sure, do not make him feel guilty, and do not be upset because your passion is not accomplished. Ask your partner manually stimulated, by hand or mouth until you reach the climax. That way, he will feel its job well.

6. Pretending to reach climax.
Many people are still difficult to reach a climax, while her partner was doing my best stimulation in sensitive areas. Worse yet, they often do not inform their partners and fake orgasms.

Such actions are wrong. You do not have to fake orgasms when not really feel it. For some people, especially women, orgasm is felt not so important anymore if they enjoyed the time they clash. Above all, when you do not want to disturb it during lovemaking. Or afraid of your partner hurt.

You do not need to shy and afraid to tell him. And when asked him to do other ways such as oral sex to make you orgasm. Say, "I want to be kissed on the here a little longer," to him. But, if this still does not help, then whispered in his ear that you want to see it reach the top. Create a comfortable of sexual activity may by subsequent emphases. The activity was not solely for the purpose of orgasm, but that you be able to better enjoy the time to do it naturally. And without any obligation to take you to the top.

September 26, 2009

Maintaining Age Wedding Tips

Tips and Trick for Domesticity. Married life until the end of life, happy and having children is the desire of married couples. No couples who want a divorce in their household. It has become common news in the current era, if a newly married couple a few months, then came the news of their divorce.

"It could be their decision to get married, you are only limited to be able to settle down and could have a pair just ..."
"But not because based on a deep sense of love and desire to live forever with your partner ..."

Desire "false" is a very fatal if not immediately be aware of and you correct from the start. Divorce is often painful for the parties involved, including the children. Divorce also can cause stress and trauma to start a new relationship with the opposite sex.

Here are some tips that may help couples married as long as possible to maintain their marriage age:

1. Communication Two Directions
Familiarize you and your partner communicate, both when in the house or when you're far apart
. If there is a problem, should be discussed when you or your partner are relaxed. Domestic disharmony usually originated from the lack of two-way communication between husband and wife. Each store each problem that they seemed to walk alone despite being under one roof.

2. Openness Sex Questions
Sexual problems was also the cause of divorce. Maybe people often forget that sexual function in addition to procreation of offspring, as well as for recreation or pleasure, and "expression of love".
Whereas many couples admitted having sexual relations can eliminate the tension after a hard day. In fact, to avoid boredom, it could not hurt to have sex other than in bed. You can do it in the kitchen, living room, even in the garage. But remember, what you want in sex should be communicated with your partner. And vice versa.

3. Accepting It Is
When a man and woman had shared a room and sedapur, each character will look original. Seduction rag did not reappear as when dating. There are only two people who had to adjust to each other .. This is where the real marriage. You and your partner learn to recognize individual differences. Some things that are a stumbling block in the relationship of husband and wife, are differences of perception, insight, and value. Including religious differences, cultural backgrounds, and personality. However, the differences could be overcome if only to try to understand each other and self introspection. Most couples who succeed in creating harmony until old age are those who managed to build together.
New unity is created when the couple managed to cultivate the spirit of sacrifice, not selfish, and have a sense of mutual understanding.

4. Do not Make a habit of Lying
Have your partner asked in detail if you are still busy until the evening meeting with business clients who turned out pretty or handsome, smart and attractive ? Well, usually, so that your partner is not too much to ask and you will be reluctant if it appears an argument, you are actually lying. You just say different things for good reasons.

You need to know that this is included in a lie that can be will continue until you and your spouse will be married to live a lie. So that it does not happen, uttered with a calm attitude that what you are doing is just business.


5. Do not Jealous Overstated
Many say that jealousy is the spice of household relationship. Okay, that's fine ! But that does not mean you or your partner could be jealous blind. Nothing new that a lot of disputes happen because of jealousy, which more often stems from misinterpretation and lack of openness.

For example, at one point because of the demands of work, the husband should ask his secretary out of town. The wife who only heard half the story from someone else, could easily accuse her husband was having an affair. And if only the wife and husband would ask to open, or previously introduced his secretary to his wife, could be another problem.


6. Avoid molester
The affair usually happens because each did not want to open each other or listen to what their partner complained. "For example, the husband was angry because every time she came, she was not at home ..!!" But the complaint was not delivered, or is expressed but not heard, or the wife did not want to change his habits.

An affair can also occur because the couple alone, rarely feel sexual pleasure or temptation from the outside like the nuances of erotic entertainment, siren and others. To resolve the dispute or adultery, which should be done first is to find the root permasalahnnya, then sought to be avoided or eliminated.

7. Look for The Third As Intercessor
If you find problems and strife arises between you and your partner, find a third person as mediator. People can like Kyai religious leaders or clergy, and community leaders who have broad knowledge and wise and psychologists. Search this better than your gripe with relatives, neighbors or your friends .. !

8. Stay intimate
In order for your relationship and your partner still tender, throw away all the perception that the romance is only worth it while still dating. Basically, the romance is the right of every person, regardless of age or status.

9. Give To The Above
Sometimes, excessive emotions arise when your problem and your partner reveals to the surface. Give yourself and pray To the Almighty Creator is a great way to diredamkan emotions and problems can be solved properly.

September 25, 2009

Pollution in Marriage

Tips and Trick for Domesticity. As well as the polluted environment if we are careless because they do not care, it turns out we can also create pollution for marriage through deeds and words are negative. In fact, we should take care. But do not forget, to take care also needed a breakthrough considering the dynamic nature of marital relationships with new experiences and problems.

You can see and study the pollution-pollution that can negatively impact both how to clean it to be able to keep your marriage relationship is always healthy.

1. Lazy
Laziness is the main enemy of marriage. This behavior makes you just live it alone until you both forgot to do the things that should be made more intimate marriage. Naturally, in line with the increasing age of marriage, you both feel comfortable. But not many couples are realizing, more and more to spend time together, the less concern you on the new things that refreshing out there that if done it can enliven the marriage. You felt it was "knowing the same to know" that either forget or lazy, no longer thought of a romantic surprise or compelling show to attract couples.

Solution :
It's time you and your partner apply immediately rose and active! Make the things that make your partner know how much still loved him with sincere and crazy about her. Show also that you want it, need attention and want to do many things with him. Find a place that can be enjoyed together, as two of your favorite vacation spot. If it had been doing their own hobbies, find a new hobby to do together.

2. Argument
Not the argument that a pollutant, but how do you both arguments when there is a difference of opinion. The argument is reasonable and necessary because often it can make you both become closer. Through argument, you and your partner learn that every person often has different ways of thinking. Each can use these differences to better understand one another. Then in the end mutual respect also leads us to be more wise with each other. Unfortunately, most of the arguments made in a negative manner, such as yelling at each other which merely aim to put forward their respective egos.

Solution :
Please note that the argument is not a bad thing in a marriage. But the argument in a healthy marriage seeking convergence and compromise that could please all parties. So, you both need to learn, when he was about to argue, have a heart and an open mind in order to find a solution.

3. Rejection
Rejection is a very disturbing toxic marriage. Many of us are as "blind" that the relationship was no longer in a healthy marriage. We tried to circumvent that everything was fine, so we shut out what really happened. Relations in marriage, because it is dynamic, there's always ebb and flow. Sometimes the challenge and problem that can be painful and cause anger. Leaving aside the problem will actually make the problem itself bigger until your relationship really at risk. Problems and challenges will always arise, but the new solution can be found if you both acknowledge that there is.

Solution :
Be realistic and accept the fact that the problems and challenges in a marriage can always come along with the love that remains attached to one another. Recognizing this can help you both better prepared to accept that the problem was coming and find a solution. If you both want to continue with, of course, what is needed is a strong team all the time, when crumpled or happy. Let's just say that the opposite is the problem, so always be sought in ways that can overcome the problem.

September 24, 2009

Happy marriage tips

Tips and Trick for Domesticity. Marital life needs art to keep it durable and not boring. Because then, your marriage will work out happily until the time comes. Here are tips to keep your marriage to be happy :

1. Come With Love Not Alone.
Always try to renew your love in a way berdua.Tak need much, just getting used to declare to the partner, how much you love her. Say thank you all every time he showed a concern, so arises a sense of mutual respect.

2. Learning Respect and Accept It Is.
These words spoken so often, but to be honest, really how much you actually receive spouse? Try to accept the shortcomings. At the very least, look at the shortcomings, as things that make her husband a unique individual. Instead, you are also trying to better explore the advantages husband.

3. Be Open.
Honesty in marriage is absolute. Without honesty, lies will accumulate and eventually explode into a major crisis. Be open not only limited to express what's on your mind to your partner, but also open to input.

4. Avoid Assume.
Real couples is not someone who can read your mind, but someone who can understand you and love what they are. But, this understanding must come from your own. For example, what are you ingikan of a marriage, and what kind of attitude you want from a husband.

5. Start With Yourself.
Want your husband more attentive? Well, of course, you first need to give attention and affection to him. Treat your partner as you want to be treated, and the changes that you hope will datan itself.

September 23, 2009

Tips Teach Children Crime Alert

Tips and Trick for Domesticity. Warm and open communication is the key requirement as to instill an attitude of prudence, to avoid the evil child. That way, parents can conduct surveillance, even taking the necessary steps. Well, here are some ways that parents can do to teach caution or prudence attitude in children :

1. Explain, face / friendly behavior does not always mean better
Generally, children of school age can be encouraged to think logically, so that he could given the signs so wary of people who interact with it. Only at the beginning of the school age child's thinking ability is still concrete. So, if you see a friendly face, the child was immediately considered a good person. Therefore, do not teach everyone who looks neat and looks really nice well-intentioned. And vice versa.

2. Tell behavior limits can and can not
Children need to know, limits the behavior and attitudes can and can not be one of himself, whether foreigners or people who are known to be close. For example, the person should not hold certain parts of the child. Tell me, his body is something precious and should be maintained. No one else who can hold it. Similarly, when an adult tried to hug her. Children should avoid or immediately released her.

3. Teach children to face the stranger
Basically, children are not prohibited from interacting with strangers, but there is need for caution. Exchange of greetings, for example, okay to do at strangers. Others as if someone had asked him more about themselves and the child's identity as the home, parents, etc., should teach children not to answer in detail. In addition, children should report to the school or adult if there is a suspicious stranger.

4. Do not allow children to accept any gift from someone else
If someone offers something, whether it be food, drinks or a particular item, should be taught to politely refuse. If children feel forced to accept it, should not be taking them. Report on the school or parents about these ratings. Who knew food or drink is dangerous.

5. Remind kids not susceptible to persuasion
In order not to suspect, could be someone who meant no harm to approach in a long time in children, so when children are already familiar, these people started running style-jurusnya. So, keep reminding the child to be careful when someone asked her to go to a place, even if the person is already familiar.

6. Learning from the experience of friends
When friends child crime victims, there is no harm in telling the children. The story is usually going to be easy to remember. Discuss the incident with the child, including what if the child deal with the situation, what needs to be done, and so on. For example, the case of elementary school children addicted to drugs. Describe lessons learned from the children's stories, such as not eating immediately and directly report if given something by someone.

7. Tell me through books
Encourage children to recognize the world around him. Example, when invited to meet market and street children, street children tell us about, why be like that, bagiamana child must be on these kids, and what behaviors should be wary of strangers in the street. Story parents will provide diverse points of view. Knowledge of child became expands on the life around

September 22, 2009

Three causes of Divorce

Tips and Trick for Domesticity. Sometimes, we need to make difficult decisions in a relationship. One is the decision to split up. However, before a decision is taken you should first understand why the relationship is already established needs to end so you can predict the consequences of this decision.

According to reason, in general there are actually three background that makes men and women end relationships. Three reasons are, among others, are difficult to forgive mistakes, limited perspectives, and differences in vision. Separation usually occurs because one or a combination of these reasons.

Mistakes are hard to forgive
Akin is the best example for this type of error is difficult to forgive. However, not all affairs happen because of loss of love. Many also admitted cheating people do for reasons of loneliness, lack of attention, or because of mere lust. Because of that, think positively, so you can evaluate these relationships for woven with more rational. Think carefully of whether the offense has performed so couples could potentially interfere with the relationship if it continued.

Limited perspective
Over time, sometimes we are so limited perspective. Consequently when a new perspective emerged in the relationship, the bond between the two people involved in it become tenuous. For example, long-distance relationship. You are located in different cities for a long time will feel more limited perspective that does not want to continue the relationship. To avoid this, do that open communication with a partner. Listen to complaints lover, so you can assess the extent to which perspective. If it can not continue, the decision should be separated properly.

Different visions
The difference occurs when your vision and have the nature lover, a job, or different expectations. Besides conflicts and differences in beliefs can also cause these differences. Maybe at first you both have a relationship because of the emotional relationship, but over time, the logic was going to dominate the relationship.

At that point, if it appears reasonable questions like, "if I want to be with in the future, could he meet my expectations, if he also wants to live the same values?," And so on. You may choose to end the relationship because your goals are no longer in line with it. But no less did the relationship continue to get married just because the old dating already. As a result they could not find the happiness that had been sought.

You who must determine whether the relationship could be continued or ended better. When the decision has been taken, although not easy, still enjoying life. Seek emotional support from the people closest to you can get through phase separation is well