Give rewards if he would change his habits

Tips and Trick for Domesticity. Can someone changed the nature of evil? It was not. The marriage counselor will usually say, it is we who must change for couples.

You can change your spouse, if you feel disturbing is his bad habits. For example, smoking, reluctant to wash the feet when back from work, or leave the TV on when not watching. Such habits are often very difficult because we face our own orderly habit. When it comes to hygiene, bad habits or nasty, too often make one of the pair became ilfil. In fact, when the he was a husband, of course we have to see him every day. How can marriage be fun if one was disturbed ?

Well, if you intend to convey to the couple, first find out how to submit objections without offend. Also, do not expect the she would change once you have requested. Changes would take time.

1. Ask good. Often we do not believe, why someone might do something bad, or dirty. But you know, that person may not know that what he was doing was disturbing other people? And, are you aware that his countenance upset or anger will only make you confused? Rather than a look of haughty or silenced, the better he's invited to sit together in one convenient place, while his heart was glad, and say that what he did cause problems (specify what the consequences). Men can not read your mind. Let's just say clearly what you desire.

2. Do the demonstrations that describes behavior. The mere discussion he took while watching a movie, making the audience around you repeatedly say, "Hush ...!"? So that the he knew what it was interrupted on when you are concentrating to what presented in the film, try to imitate what he had done. Perform a teasing way, so he also knew that you were reprimanded him gently, rather than approve what he did.

3. Tell them that you will stop one of your bad habits, if he could stop the bad habit. For example, the doctor had asked her husband to quit smoking, but he was still smoking. Offer: You will not eat offal if the husband is also willing to comply with the doctor ordered. Offer some kind of barter or compromise such a positive way to avoid confrontation and remove some unnecessary habits.

4. Ask what the couple would be perceived if the habit that other people do. He may not realize what it was like a party who see or feel the consequences. For example, you leave a gang with a friend, and all hungry. Once in the restaurant, the direct him to go inside and order food for himself. He also immediately regardless of your dinner is still waiting for other friends who have not come. This attitude did not put together. So, ask him what he felt he had when he left in a state of your stomach growls while enjoying your own food.

5. Give rewards if couples are willing to discard bad habits. When talking with partners about the habit, say that you'll give anything he wants (eg massage at home from the office) every time he tried to stop the annoying habit. Make sure that he was making these changes not because they had to, but because to understand what good influence.

6. Without threatening or offensive, let's him know that the habits that make you turn off. You need to get used to each other in dialogue (rather than discussing the purpose for right and wrong, you know) with a partner. Couples need to know how you feel due to his behavior. Instead, open yourself as well if the he also threw a variety of objections about your bad habits.

However, no one is perfect, right ?

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Intelligent Child with the Right Nutrition

Tips and Trick for Domesticity. Undeniably, every mother wanted her baby (boy) is smart. Intelligence of a child affected by at least 3 important factors, namely: Descendants of (genetic), Nutrition, and environmental stimulation. The third important factor is very influential and supportive to the achievement of optimal child pontention.

In addition to genetic factors, intelligent women who need to consider the needs of the fruit of his early nutrition and stimulation factors. Good nutrition is essential at the early stages of a baby's life. There are many nutrients needed for healthy brain development, among others: Protein and amino acid, AA-DHA, GA (Gangliosida), Kolina and other micro nutrients.

At the time of birth, every baby's mother has approximately 100 billion brain cells, but not all brain cells connected to each other baby perfectly. Brain experiencing construction period since the fetus until the first decade of childhood. The effort needs to be done to optimize the relationship between cells is through nutrition. During this construction period more nerve cells are formed and used. Strength and the number of new connections between cells, nerve cells are the basis for the memory of a child until adulthood.

One of the important nutrients the brain needs is Gangliosida, ie for the formation of memory and general function of the cerebrum, the growth and formation of nerve cells as well as modulators, which can transmit information and store data.

Therefore, it is recommended to a mother to provide milk for your baby. Gangliosida also be obtained from Gangliosida containing nutrients such as milk. Wise mother expected to give additional food such as milk contain Gangliosida for his son.

Nutrition is not enough without be balanced by early stimulation because it also plays a very important role in motor growth infants and toddlers. A mother is expected to stimulate children to play and interact with their environment, exercise and other creative activities in order to stimulate a child's brain development even more complete.

Fonterra Brands Indonesia, the world's dairy companies from New Zealand who already have research and experience in the field of milk since the beginning of the year 2008 presents ANMUM ESSENTIAL, infant formula containing nutrients that is superior Gangliosida. in addition to the content of DHA and AA, and a (alpha) protein and other essential nutrients.

Fonterra Brands convinced that breast milk is best for babies, and supporting breastfeeding as a natural food for unparalleled growth and optimal infant development. If a mother can not breastfeed, it is advisable to consult with a health professional.

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Understanding the husband molester Orientation

Tips and Trick for Domesticity. Although nearly everyone agrees that infidelity brings bad consequences for the family, still cheating behavior occur everywhere regardless of a particular social class. With no intention of ignoring many facts about the affair by the wife, this short note will only be little talk about the behavior of the husband's affair a man's wife.

Not that the man who paid a mediocre will not infidelity, but usually the man who has enough money to finance the affair is more potent activity to be unfaithful. Not just about money, cheating man usually are those who have power. Because of their arrogance, infidelity is considered as a means to demonstrate his power.

Drastic change of status, such as from middle management level to senior executive positions can make someone feel giddy. He will be separated from his colleagues, the work challenges that may not be understood by their partner. At this point maybe he'll find someone to talk I can talk with ease to reveal the contents of his heart. The need for someone to talk to these higher when communication with the wife did not go well, could occur because of educational background or a different social.

The children are growing up and demanding more attention, must divide their time between career and family, was enough to make a wife out of time and ignore the need to share a husband. There are also husbands who are looking for another woman because she was too dominant. But still this is not a reason for someone to break a promise allegiance. However, this situation might encourage the husband to find someone else who can give him attention.

Praise from colleagues, the intensity of the meeting too often, a text message from the former, and little attention to other forms of long could make hearts soar, too. Equality of hobbies and interests, the same chemistry, plus a meeting of high intensity could be a trigger dangerous.

Actually only a few men who wore an affair for reasons of physical attraction. Despite having a beautiful wife but when the house was always mamakai clothes are, not keeping clean, the face is always covered cosmetic tools (wear a mask, hair dirol), while just a pretty face shown when outside the home, a long course men can get bored and looking for a more interesting scene outside the home.

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Between Love and Crazy

Tips and Trick for Domesticity. It is difficult to distinguish between true love and the love that was crazy when someone is falling in love. Sometimes so many people fall into the real meaning of love .. For that understand the meaning of love in order not to hurt when her loss. Consider the following ;
Love is something that started from a friendship that continues to grow every day. Therein, physical attraction is only one aspect of shared feelings. Something that teaches you to be patient and plan for the future with confidence and not in a hurry.

Love is something that involves understanding and willingness to accept him and any shortcomings. When the two people involved in it can be themselves and feel comfortable with each other. Something that involves honesty, respect and trust.

In the love there is no suspicion that there is only a sense of calm and safe. Something that always gives you the strength to face anything. Something given and received. When you still feel close to the couple, despite being far away.

Love is also something that can still be balanced with other aspects of life than relationships. Something where they can deal with both good and difficult times between them. Something that makes you think and see beyond. In short, love makes you become a better person.

While love is crazy about instant passion that will last over time. Something that is very involving interest. When you're together, which is expected to last hanyalan intimitas.

Something that involves not only suspicion, but also do not believe in the couple or to themselves. Something that makes us take a hasty decision. When you always have the feeling of insecurity that you will lose your partner someday.

There was never satisfied with your partner and feel disturbed by various shortcomings. Something that makes you feel anxious and stressed when he's not with you. Something that makes you feel happy and excited, but not happy in real sense. Something that can make you do t hings that you regret later, do not like love. So where is the love you feel today?

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Love Relationships The Potential Failure

Tips and Trick for Domesticity. There are 6 types of relationships that are likely to damage or failure. Check your love story, because maybe the story including one of "forbidden".

1. The relationship that started from the principle of one hand clapping.
There was a man or a woman who was crazy about the prospective partner to become excessive. Phone more than 3 times a day, providing various kinds of gifts and attention. Actually there is nothing wrong of it all, if it all goes both ways. The problem is that if it's only one direction only.

In the end, this relationship will develop into an unhealthy relationship, because one loves the other side with the higher levels and not balanced. Whereas in a healthy relationship, there must be equality, or equality. This relationship can also be a "utility function". That is, those who felt the 'love object' can take advantage and exploit the subject. This relationship can also be based on compassion whose effects are clearly not well in the future.

2. Relationship that began as a 'fantasy'.
In the process of life, sometimes there are moments where one is in the 'fantasy'. For example, amid busy work, a man vacationing unity certain areas and meet with a woman who was also vacationing in the area. Within this state, if the two men were attracted to each other, so they tend to be an affair.

This is called the relationship 'fantasy'. Both are outside of their routine and stuck together in a relaxed atmosphere that its only 'temporary'. Sooner or later when they returned to routine work or to the circumstances of 'real', they're like 'tercelik back'. And when that happens, the relationship 'fantasy' that can be quickly dispersed.

3. The relationship that began as a rebellion against the family or parents.
For example, a man who chose a woman with the criteria that are not favored by his mother, because there is a certain anger or resentment that saved the child against the mother.

The child himself may not really fit with the partner of choice, but he was forced to 'hold' for parents to feel annoyed. Relationships like this a lot happening in our society. In the end, the relationship certainly did not get this blessing can be ended with bitter disappointment and for various problems, the smallest.

4. The relationship that began in a state of emotion that still hurt from a broken heart.
There is the type of person that as soon as possible for our lovely new heart, after a broken heart. Whether he uses the new people simply to divert attention, to vent all the sadness and disappointment, or even to intend revenge. And everything that could go unnoticed by the person.

Actually, maybe he could genuinely loves her new lover. But most people with a broken heart still carry bitter experiences in the past. In essence, do not force yourself to build a serious relationship with a man who had a broken heart. If it's heart was already tied to him, should wait until some time until he's really ready physically and spiritually.

5. Relationship arising from a sense of awe over.
For example, a woman who was dating a man who is a role model or idol figures. This is also the beginning of an unhealthy relationship. Someone who admire excessively spouses usually have excessive expectations or the expectations of his partner. There is a picture of perfection for her partner.

Whereas in reality, there is no one perfect human being! The idol could have made a mistake that will disappoint their partner. And this can make the relationship slowly crack or even fall apart immediately.

6. The relationship that began as a result of an affair.
Later, many people are stuck with this one issue. Falling in love with someone who already has spouse is a challenge for some people. Yet this dangerous game is very harmful and completely wrong! Inside, there is usually wound and bitterness, lies, and betrayal.

And people who have decided to engage an affair usually would repeat his actions to his new partner. The tempter who seized the couple of others will also overcome by feelings of guilt and betrayal are at risk to be victims of partner, much like the law sow reap. Because of that, stop playing with fire, and find a partner who is still available!

By knowing these possibilities, let's start a relationship with a safe and correct based on pure love.

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Knowing the secret lies Your Spouse

Tips and Trick for Domesticity. One powerful means to maintain a relationship of love is to establish a smooth communication, honest communication. The problem is, why people are afraid of telling the truth ?

People lie because people feel uncomfortable when telling the truth. If you lie, said Dr. Jackie Black in his book entitled Meeting Your Match: Cracking the Code to Successful Relationships, the man will be setegas not usually. If facing a direct question, the man will evade or answered "do not knows". To find out whether your spouse lying or not, you do not need to polygraph machines. You just enough attention to his movements.

Touching nose
One of the most visible sign when people lie is often touched his nose. Itching? Maybe. But maybe not if faced with a serious conversation context. Even touching your nose is not exactly a firm and sure that it is the language of lies, his nose touching gesture unconsciously it may be a direct indication that people are not ready to say what it is. At this point you can learn from the experience and habits of people who say is not true and honest. At the time, unconsciously and unintentionally, they would touch the nose.

Diction
People who do not usually lie directly answer your question. You said it, he'll answer it. Simple. But note the change in style of speech. If he lied, speech style will change. Once simple, now turned tricky. Complex. Sentence becomes very long, rambling, often did not touch the contents and did not answer the question. Can be complicated and forced diksinya impressed, "Boy", the intellectual and contain. Though often tangled logic. No connect. Between one thing and other things not related to each other. Such a leap is broken. Although this point could not dipersiskan as a sign that someone must have lied, carefulness still needed to hold the tail of logic errors (thinking and language).

A different behavior than usual
Another sign that you can hold the people who are not telling the truth is a different behavior. Other than usual. You must remember that the conduct or actions related to his mind. If he does not want you to know what actually happened, the movement must be supported. There are several movements or behaviors that you can consider, among other things, rubbing his neck or eyes, covering his mouth as he spoke, scratching his head or holding her ears, and move the neck but not in accordance with the sentence itself. Rubbed his eyes, for example. In psychology, the movement could be a representation of the refusal, transfer of emotion. So shut up too. Especially after talking, he quickly closed his mouth and a little surprised. That's a clear sign. Or also scratched his head-scratching. Try you look good behavior. If he's telling the truth and right, he did not need menggarukkan head. Scratched his head had a close relationship with self-protection mechanism. Such action to divert the attention and conversation of others. Likewise, the movement of the neck rubbed. The movement could be a transfer of emotion.

Pause and mistakes talking
This happens due to unpreparedness lies. People who are not prepared to lie to gelagapan, stuttering or stammering in anticipation of a statement or confirmation, even the wrong answer or talk. Too long a pause in the conversation can be an indicator. That means that people think long and how to say something. Although these elements can not be used as a benchmark, these elements still need to be considered in the dialogue or attempt to reveal the truth. For that, you still need to know the basis of people's behavior, learning speech patterns, body language and facial expressions. Observe any changes. Therefore, as much as possible to avoid communication via SMS, phone or email. Without face to face, you will be difficult to observe changes that occur. That means you also will be difficult to know whether he lied or not.

Contrary
Someone who likes to say honestly do not really hate the likely whose name detail or details. People that prefer to talk in general terms. Why? Because of the things that will detail gave her a hard to say what he meant. Told in detail similar to dismantle his lies. And it is usually avoided. Even if he tries to play with things that detail, there is no connect. Therefore, if you want to know whether he lied or not, ask him to play with the little things and details. When he started hard and could not clearly runut, chances are he's lying to you. Especially if he gets angry when you Questioning things. Or he's away. It's a clear indicator.

Blush
If you talk to someone, pay attention to color his face. If the color of his face did not change as before, you can still believe in him. But when you flicked something and the color of her face suddenly changed, even though he mangatakan "no", he was hiding something. Or is he surprised, and then afraid that you know the meaning. If it so, you will easily lure to tell the truth. Look at his eyes and notice the color of his face. Remember, even a great liar would not be able to control the spontaneous movement of the muscles of the upper face. Upper facial muscles were very quick to react with emotion.

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