August 11, 2009

Muffling the pettishly

Tips and Trick Domesticity, One thing that make our energy is used up, the occured of pettishly. This feeling appear that caused by we can not refrain from behavior of others. When we pettish, we feel right and think agliness of others. One thing that very dangerous by pettish is his/her time will finish to think vengeance.

The effect that appear by pettish is angry. If we angry, our word are restrained, stress tended to increase and others. That's why we should put up a good fight to avoid pettishly. Pettishly is occured by grading him self more than a real, feel smart, deserving, kindness, handsome, and feel successful.
First, forget your occupation, think it's got by God in order that we are not greedy. We should coached our self as a God's slave that we don't have any thing except knowledge that God sprays it with scantiness. With this attitude, we live lighter than usual.
Second, we should see what ever people do to us that will useful with our right attitude. We never to lose out with people behavior, if our attitude is right. What ever of People said to us, think it as the episode or test that should be occured to examine keeping the faith.
The Third, we should have an emphaty. It is looking some thing by the others side. The following story about a man who guide elephant in the front, but the other one follow him behind the elephant. Man who in the front said " Oh, All day is beatifull secne ". Suddenly, one who follow him behind the elephant are thrown him because feel pettish.
Fouth, we should create indignity of others to us as a quality of increasing field and an opportunity to practice a kindness value with forgiving man who derange us and reply with kindness.



August 05, 2009

A Good Way To Success

The word of success is the case in point the most people now. Every one want the success. Because the success is a happy symbol.

Some time success can come with several ways. There are two kind way to get success. first, the way is good and the other way is bad or evil man.

If there is an evil man but he get succes, Don't think you can do his crime too to become a success like him. You must show to public that you ca be succes with the good ways. So that we get two winnings, first you get success. An the second is happy that we still being good man/woman.

And believe me, with the good way, your
success will hold out some longer than the bad way.

August 03, 2009

The Most Beatiful Gift

Tips and Tricks For Domesticity 1. Attendance.If We love a man / a girl, his / her attendance is priceless. Yes, her/his attendance can present by mail, phone, photo or fax, but if she/he can present beside us, we can share our feeling, attention, affection as a whole and intensive. Attandance can be a happiness carrier.

2. Listening. A little bit of people are able to give this gift. Because, most of people would rather heard by some one. As we know, the relationship harmonism deterninable by mutual Listening. With listening, we learn about patient and lowliness. Just say thank will be beautiful heard.

3. Silent. As some of words, there is a power on our silent. Silent can be used for punish or repel some one. But silent can indicate our love such as give space to some one.

4. give rope. Could we claim to be love some one if we trannel him ? One of Love realization is give him a free hand. The meaning of give rope is not "you can do as you like".Give rope is give confidence to responsible of his decision or what he did.

5. Graciously.Who are not happy looking our darling prettier or more handsome ? Beauty / handsomeness is a gift. It is not wrong giving this gift every day.

6. ready to giving way any problem can not be matter in dispute. Think first, if your relationship will be broken by that problem. You could have giving way him.

7. A Smile. Believe it or not, the power of a smile is quite extraordinary. A Smile that given honesty can be a spirit of disconsolate, bright a depressed atmosphere. A smile is eligibility to expose we with world.

Have a nice day !





May 13, 2009

Patient is the Key of Success

Tips and Tricks For Domesticity . If you follow the story or live journey of success people, of course there are so many forbearence in it. It is impossible they want to open up success especially get started from zero. So, If your are belonging to impatiently person, Practise to become a patient person right now.
What are the way of it ? Abreast with the following suggestion :

Promise for yourself to peevish fastly.
When resentful was occured on you, Try to pledge its agreement. Try to endure your emotion, with looking for quiet place, and than inhale the atmosphere for about 60 seconds. thereby your emotion will slowly go down.

When you get stress and you get headache, try to image gratify event, funny or foolish that were happened on you. Thereby, your head which was heavy and feeling broken will be lighter.

When your time confiscated on waiting, either waiting a friend or wait for call in the hospital or wait for anything, try to looking for gratify during your waiting time. Do not let you got tired and peevish. You can make your waiting time with reading the light reading, talking or watch television. So that you can pass your waiting time without load.

Look for enjoyment among weary.
Traffic jam, piled up jobs, keep your mind empty. And than smile and feel sensation as a human without emotion.

One more the way to become patient person is keep praying. When you get tired with some problems of live, try to leave with pray. Your inner dialog can flow through your soul sobriety pretenaturally. And you will be patient to confront anything.

Do you have do it ?

dictionary
resentful = menyebalkan
confiscated = tersita

The Secret for Long lasting Relationship

Tips and Tricks For Domesticity . we are some times confused why is there people hold on their love or marriage, but the other way there is broken off in midway. As the story goes, there are several things bringing long lasting.

1. Communication
Being happy is determained by 2 persons.It means, must have interrelationship. Communication is one way to achieve it. If you are like to begin as stranger with your couple, it means, you loss communication. The communication is not only speaking, but also responsive. Adopt good attitude on your communication, with listen people speaking till finish, before you tell your opinion.

2. Honestly
That may be so many people to secret kept a thing a secret from their couple. Some times, even to hide a thing is the best way. But more of people said that honestly make marriage or relationship go along way. In all likehood honestly is a bitter one to be heard, but honestly will save relationship.

3. Sense of trust each other.
How bitter and sad this live if you continually strained and suspicious, is it true said by our couple ?. For the example, when we go home too late, with the traffic jam reason or there is meeting by the run. Is that always become to curiosity matter ? If there is sense of trust, it is never become a threat.

4. Laugh
Almost people admitted that Laugh is panacea for a relationship. Even in shameful moment. Balst of Laugh can be rescuer of cool situation.

5. Be friend to your couple.
How can we be lovers, if we can't be friends, said Michael Bolton in one of his album. He is right, becuse love with some one who can not be friend, will never go along way. Love relationship need more enough emotion.

6. Be appreciate each others.
There is no success relationship, if some one contemn its couple. We must respect to appreciate our couple. Don't forget to acquire appreciation from your couple, you must appreciate your self before.

7. Love all moment.
What's the name of amour without love ? Be sure your self that you love him and he loves you.

8. Compromise.
as we study macro economics, We know that balance will be reached if demand and supply curve meet on one point. In love, it is not enough different. Your desirability from him and conversely. It need compromise to reach balance. There is small thing as sacrifice to acquire happiness. And so with conversely.

9. condone each others.
Give a pardon and do not keep resentment. For big default, this law is also valid permanent. When you throw resentment for one time, than the relationship will not outworn.
dictionary :
In all likehood = boleh jadi
panacea = obat mujarab

May 09, 2009

Problem is the challenge

Tips and Tricks For Domesticity . If you consider problem as load, maybe you will run for it. If You consider problem as the challenge, you will face it. However, problem is a gift that you are happy to accept it.

in the eyes of sharp, you will see success behind every problem.

The problem is ladderstep that strive a high level of power. So, face it and change to become the power for your success. Without problem, you are not proper to go into the stripe success. Even, Live is the problem, therefore, accept it as a gift.

The big gift that are given by mother's eagle to eaglet are not any shard of breakfast. and it is not brood in the cool of night. The first second for the eaglet consider mother's eagle are exceedingly, fear scream. After a while, we do not accept the death. But, the true of the eagle are flying.

If you do not brave to fight problem, you would not become as the true person.