Tips and Trick for Domesticity. Many women who now play doubles. As housewives and career women. The problem that often arises is, difficult to balance these two tasks. Here are some tips for you.
1. Set Morning Routines
You should be disciplined and strict in regulating the morning routine for the whole family, including your child get used to. Get up before the kids wake up, do mild exercise such as yoga or moderate exercise and drinking a glass of hot coffee. Prepare clothes, shoes, uniforms, and your child's lunch the night before. In addition to avoiding panic, it also avoids debate with your children that sometimes feel not match your outfit chose. For breakfast, prepare a practical such as bread, cereal or instant noodle.
2. Daily Monitor children
If you work near the small school, there's nothing wrong drive her to school. Help her homework. If you have a maid, regularly communicate with him in order to know what activities and child development. Think of him as a friend who could be invited to the discussion. Jka little sick, you need to work together with her husband, particularly about the division of care tasks. If you do not have a maid, you can ask for help close relatives or neighbors who can be trusted to care for her. You can control the little things over the phone while in office.
3. Spend some time in the Night
Although tired after work, spend a little time for the little guy. Just do the little things like accompany them watch television, read a book or cook dinner together. Occasionally, on weekends invite them to dinner at a restaurant or on vacation out of town. Use the time together is to ask what activities and little experience. For example, "Earlier learn anything in school?" or "fun camp activities, what?"
4. Communication With Husband
Although busy working and taking care of children, do not let you forget the husband. He also needs your attention, you know. There are some activities you can do with a husband, for example, watch television, eat lunch or dinner together and email each other at work. To be successful alone with her husband at home, should tidurkan first child so you both can talk more freely or having sex. To maintain the flame of romance between you and your husband, there's no harm in you both set a date as romantic as going out first. In order to not get 'interference' from the little, you can leave him with a parent or left at home under the supervision of your servants.
5. Do not Let The Expense
Busy taking care of household jobs and jobs as career women often make you stressed and depressed. Stress is unavoidable, but can be reduced. Confident and happy with what you have achieved. What is important, enjoy your role as a mother who could see your children grow and develop. Moreover, in doing the job, do not ever make your dual role as a 'shield' or a reason. Little sick, should not be a reason so you can take leave. If your child is sick, let's say if you do need time off, no-frills sick child.
6. Simplify Schedule
Arrange daily schedule that includes household activities and work and try to obey. Not only applies to activities of everyday homes, this simplification also applies to your grooming routine. If your time in the morning mepet, avoid the use of make-up that takes a long time, like mascara. In addition membubuhkannya hard, you also will have a hard time cleaning it. Choose make-up of simple and practical. In addition, you also need to arrange the schedule associated with your work. If you usually have a bad habit of delaying the work, immediately eliminate those bad habits. The sooner you do the task from the boss, the better.
7. Communication With the Little Master
Communication with each teacher who teaches your child or the guardian class will help you learn to recognize the development of education and little character. If you have trouble teaching a little thing on, such as homework, you can ask for advice to teachers.
8. Involved in the Child and Husband
Get involved in their activities. For little, you can join the parents association at her school. This is one of the means to supervise and monitor the activities of the child. As for the husband, it could not hurt your husband to accept invitations to attend events attended by colleagues. Because you need to know with whom your husband be working.
9. Use sophisticated technology
To have your life more easily and regularly, do not hesitate to use the technology, ranging from communication devices such as mobile phones to household equipment like washing machines, microwave, and a rice cooker. If you miss with your friends and do not have time to meet with them, why not call or send SMS their course. Spend a little time, at lunch for example, to call your friends or sending electronic mail (email). As a variation, also send an electronic greeting card (egreeting) when they berulangtahun.
10. Relax
You need to relax and do fun things to yourself. For the time, you can adjust the daily schedule. Read a novel or magazine, sit on the couch while snacking, listening to music or watching your favorite movies are some alternatives. If you do not have time to do it, the bathroom can be a fun place to ourselves. Soaking in warm water, luluran, maskeran, and creambath can be a fun activity. Alternatively, just take the whole family for a vacation on the weekend. If you and your family watching hobby, select the appropriate film for all ages.
11. For Task
This is the most important thing. In order for a loss you can not do a dual role, should divide the chores for all your family members, especially husbands. For example, if you serve the kids go to school, ask your husband to pay the phone bill and electricity to the bank. In order to run smoothly, you need to make a deal with the husband about what tasks you have to do both.
If at any time you or your husband can not do 'job' because there are unexpected needs, immediately say that the solution can be found. Do the same thing for your baby. Teach him a daily schedule to teach him discipline. Familiarize your child to do activities they can do themselves, such as combing hair, dressing, or tying shoelaces.
12. Be Glad with Your Fun
Quite often your dual role raises questions of perception and the people around you, including parents and friends. For example, your mother commented, "You better not work anymore enggak to have time to ngurusin children and husband." Your mother's statement may make you feel guilty because it was true. But should you throw away those feelings.
Although your parents are people who are experienced in raising you, but they do not know how exactly your life. Remember, you have the right to determine your life path. But if the feeling 'guilty' is actually coming from you, for example, you feel less family support, try to make some changes. Simplify your daily schedule, reduce or switch off the profession. Be sure that you do for the sake of your family and not to please others
1. Set Morning Routines
You should be disciplined and strict in regulating the morning routine for the whole family, including your child get used to. Get up before the kids wake up, do mild exercise such as yoga or moderate exercise and drinking a glass of hot coffee. Prepare clothes, shoes, uniforms, and your child's lunch the night before. In addition to avoiding panic, it also avoids debate with your children that sometimes feel not match your outfit chose. For breakfast, prepare a practical such as bread, cereal or instant noodle.
2. Daily Monitor children
If you work near the small school, there's nothing wrong drive her to school. Help her homework. If you have a maid, regularly communicate with him in order to know what activities and child development. Think of him as a friend who could be invited to the discussion. Jka little sick, you need to work together with her husband, particularly about the division of care tasks. If you do not have a maid, you can ask for help close relatives or neighbors who can be trusted to care for her. You can control the little things over the phone while in office.
3. Spend some time in the Night
Although tired after work, spend a little time for the little guy. Just do the little things like accompany them watch television, read a book or cook dinner together. Occasionally, on weekends invite them to dinner at a restaurant or on vacation out of town. Use the time together is to ask what activities and little experience. For example, "Earlier learn anything in school?" or "fun camp activities, what?"
4. Communication With Husband
Although busy working and taking care of children, do not let you forget the husband. He also needs your attention, you know. There are some activities you can do with a husband, for example, watch television, eat lunch or dinner together and email each other at work. To be successful alone with her husband at home, should tidurkan first child so you both can talk more freely or having sex. To maintain the flame of romance between you and your husband, there's no harm in you both set a date as romantic as going out first. In order to not get 'interference' from the little, you can leave him with a parent or left at home under the supervision of your servants.
5. Do not Let The Expense
Busy taking care of household jobs and jobs as career women often make you stressed and depressed. Stress is unavoidable, but can be reduced. Confident and happy with what you have achieved. What is important, enjoy your role as a mother who could see your children grow and develop. Moreover, in doing the job, do not ever make your dual role as a 'shield' or a reason. Little sick, should not be a reason so you can take leave. If your child is sick, let's say if you do need time off, no-frills sick child.
6. Simplify Schedule
Arrange daily schedule that includes household activities and work and try to obey. Not only applies to activities of everyday homes, this simplification also applies to your grooming routine. If your time in the morning mepet, avoid the use of make-up that takes a long time, like mascara. In addition membubuhkannya hard, you also will have a hard time cleaning it. Choose make-up of simple and practical. In addition, you also need to arrange the schedule associated with your work. If you usually have a bad habit of delaying the work, immediately eliminate those bad habits. The sooner you do the task from the boss, the better.
7. Communication With the Little Master
Communication with each teacher who teaches your child or the guardian class will help you learn to recognize the development of education and little character. If you have trouble teaching a little thing on, such as homework, you can ask for advice to teachers.
8. Involved in the Child and Husband
Get involved in their activities. For little, you can join the parents association at her school. This is one of the means to supervise and monitor the activities of the child. As for the husband, it could not hurt your husband to accept invitations to attend events attended by colleagues. Because you need to know with whom your husband be working.
9. Use sophisticated technology
To have your life more easily and regularly, do not hesitate to use the technology, ranging from communication devices such as mobile phones to household equipment like washing machines, microwave, and a rice cooker. If you miss with your friends and do not have time to meet with them, why not call or send SMS their course. Spend a little time, at lunch for example, to call your friends or sending electronic mail (email). As a variation, also send an electronic greeting card (egreeting) when they berulangtahun.
10. Relax
You need to relax and do fun things to yourself. For the time, you can adjust the daily schedule. Read a novel or magazine, sit on the couch while snacking, listening to music or watching your favorite movies are some alternatives. If you do not have time to do it, the bathroom can be a fun place to ourselves. Soaking in warm water, luluran, maskeran, and creambath can be a fun activity. Alternatively, just take the whole family for a vacation on the weekend. If you and your family watching hobby, select the appropriate film for all ages.
11. For Task
This is the most important thing. In order for a loss you can not do a dual role, should divide the chores for all your family members, especially husbands. For example, if you serve the kids go to school, ask your husband to pay the phone bill and electricity to the bank. In order to run smoothly, you need to make a deal with the husband about what tasks you have to do both.
If at any time you or your husband can not do 'job' because there are unexpected needs, immediately say that the solution can be found. Do the same thing for your baby. Teach him a daily schedule to teach him discipline. Familiarize your child to do activities they can do themselves, such as combing hair, dressing, or tying shoelaces.
12. Be Glad with Your Fun
Quite often your dual role raises questions of perception and the people around you, including parents and friends. For example, your mother commented, "You better not work anymore enggak to have time to ngurusin children and husband." Your mother's statement may make you feel guilty because it was true. But should you throw away those feelings.
Although your parents are people who are experienced in raising you, but they do not know how exactly your life. Remember, you have the right to determine your life path. But if the feeling 'guilty' is actually coming from you, for example, you feel less family support, try to make some changes. Simplify your daily schedule, reduce or switch off the profession. Be sure that you do for the sake of your family and not to please others
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