Tips and Trick for Domesticity. Arguing with a spouse can be the inevitable in everyday life. How to fight not continue? The following is some of tips.
1. When couples angry: pause. It does not sound easy. So try to take a deep breath. Then consider why the couple can get angry, what made the situation grim. What is done is necessarily affect what would you say to the couple. Your emotions are more controlled.
2. When we are angry or annoyed with your partner, before he knows we are angry, had a moment of silence. Think again if the anger is worthy to be debated or should be forgotten.
3. Try doing some of these things, empathy, hugging, smiling, and do the things that be nice if the couple was angry. But if you are angry, remember the things that make you fall in love with the couple. Usually this can reduce our anger.
4. Once you and your partner no longer emotional, is a quiet chat. Decide whether the argument or anger that happens it needs to be discussed or not. Oh yes, these discussions should occur in a truly relaxed. The words that made no more high pitched. Try to understand each other's feelings to each other.
6. By doing the steps above, hopefully you and your partner to reduce bermarahan each other. Too bad because if we are too often emotional indulgence.
Good luck!
1. When couples angry: pause. It does not sound easy. So try to take a deep breath. Then consider why the couple can get angry, what made the situation grim. What is done is necessarily affect what would you say to the couple. Your emotions are more controlled.
2. When we are angry or annoyed with your partner, before he knows we are angry, had a moment of silence. Think again if the anger is worthy to be debated or should be forgotten.
3. Try doing some of these things, empathy, hugging, smiling, and do the things that be nice if the couple was angry. But if you are angry, remember the things that make you fall in love with the couple. Usually this can reduce our anger.
4. Once you and your partner no longer emotional, is a quiet chat. Decide whether the argument or anger that happens it needs to be discussed or not. Oh yes, these discussions should occur in a truly relaxed. The words that made no more high pitched. Try to understand each other's feelings to each other.
6. By doing the steps above, hopefully you and your partner to reduce bermarahan each other. Too bad because if we are too often emotional indulgence.
Good luck!
1 comments:
Great post! Thanks for the insight. I appreciate your take on fighting and arguments. It's always tough to know when fighting is productive and when it's too much fighting. I stumbled upon this blog about fighting like I found yours- http://burisonthecouch.wordpress.com/2010/08/15/more-fighting/
I thought you and your readers might enjoy it as well. Thanks again for the post! I'd like to see more like it.
-Becky
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