Tips and Trick for Domesticity. Married life until the end of life, happy and having children is the desire of married couples. No couples who want a divorce in their household. It has become common news in the current era, if a newly married couple a few months, then came the news of their divorce.
"It could be their decision to get married, you are only limited to be able to settle down and could have a pair just ..."
"But not because based on a deep sense of love and desire to live forever with your partner ..."
Desire "false" is a very fatal if not immediately be aware of and you correct from the start. Divorce is often painful for the parties involved, including the children. Divorce also can cause stress and trauma to start a new relationship with the opposite sex.
Here are some tips that may help couples married as long as possible to maintain their marriage age:
1. Communication Two Directions
Familiarize you and your partner communicate, both when in the house or when you're far apart. If there is a problem, should be discussed when you or your partner are relaxed. Domestic disharmony usually originated from the lack of two-way communication between husband and wife. Each store each problem that they seemed to walk alone despite being under one roof.
2. Openness Sex Questions
Sexual problems was also the cause of divorce. Maybe people often forget that sexual function in addition to procreation of offspring, as well as for recreation or pleasure, and "expression of love".
Whereas many couples admitted having sexual relations can eliminate the tension after a hard day. In fact, to avoid boredom, it could not hurt to have sex other than in bed. You can do it in the kitchen, living room, even in the garage. But remember, what you want in sex should be communicated with your partner. And vice versa.
3. Accepting It Is
When a man and woman had shared a room and sedapur, each character will look original. Seduction rag did not reappear as when dating. There are only two people who had to adjust to each other .. This is where the real marriage. You and your partner learn to recognize individual differences. Some things that are a stumbling block in the relationship of husband and wife, are differences of perception, insight, and value. Including religious differences, cultural backgrounds, and personality. However, the differences could be overcome if only to try to understand each other and self introspection. Most couples who succeed in creating harmony until old age are those who managed to build together.
New unity is created when the couple managed to cultivate the spirit of sacrifice, not selfish, and have a sense of mutual understanding.
4. Do not Make a habit of Lying
Have your partner asked in detail if you are still busy until the evening meeting with business clients who turned out pretty or handsome, smart and attractive ? Well, usually, so that your partner is not too much to ask and you will be reluctant if it appears an argument, you are actually lying. You just say different things for good reasons.
You need to know that this is included in a lie that can be will continue until you and your spouse will be married to live a lie. So that it does not happen, uttered with a calm attitude that what you are doing is just business.
5. Do not Jealous Overstated
Many say that jealousy is the spice of household relationship. Okay, that's fine ! But that does not mean you or your partner could be jealous blind. Nothing new that a lot of disputes happen because of jealousy, which more often stems from misinterpretation and lack of openness.
For example, at one point because of the demands of work, the husband should ask his secretary out of town. The wife who only heard half the story from someone else, could easily accuse her husband was having an affair. And if only the wife and husband would ask to open, or previously introduced his secretary to his wife, could be another problem.
6. Avoid molester
The affair usually happens because each did not want to open each other or listen to what their partner complained. "For example, the husband was angry because every time she came, she was not at home ..!!" But the complaint was not delivered, or is expressed but not heard, or the wife did not want to change his habits.
An affair can also occur because the couple alone, rarely feel sexual pleasure or temptation from the outside like the nuances of erotic entertainment, siren and others. To resolve the dispute or adultery, which should be done first is to find the root permasalahnnya, then sought to be avoided or eliminated.
7. Look for The Third As Intercessor
If you find problems and strife arises between you and your partner, find a third person as mediator. People can like Kyai religious leaders or clergy, and community leaders who have broad knowledge and wise and psychologists. Search this better than your gripe with relatives, neighbors or your friends .. !
8. Stay intimate
In order for your relationship and your partner still tender, throw away all the perception that the romance is only worth it while still dating. Basically, the romance is the right of every person, regardless of age or status.
9. Give To The Above
Sometimes, excessive emotions arise when your problem and your partner reveals to the surface. Give yourself and pray To the Almighty Creator is a great way to diredamkan emotions and problems can be solved properly.
"It could be their decision to get married, you are only limited to be able to settle down and could have a pair just ..."
"But not because based on a deep sense of love and desire to live forever with your partner ..."
Desire "false" is a very fatal if not immediately be aware of and you correct from the start. Divorce is often painful for the parties involved, including the children. Divorce also can cause stress and trauma to start a new relationship with the opposite sex.
Here are some tips that may help couples married as long as possible to maintain their marriage age:
1. Communication Two Directions
Familiarize you and your partner communicate, both when in the house or when you're far apart. If there is a problem, should be discussed when you or your partner are relaxed. Domestic disharmony usually originated from the lack of two-way communication between husband and wife. Each store each problem that they seemed to walk alone despite being under one roof.
2. Openness Sex Questions
Sexual problems was also the cause of divorce. Maybe people often forget that sexual function in addition to procreation of offspring, as well as for recreation or pleasure, and "expression of love".
Whereas many couples admitted having sexual relations can eliminate the tension after a hard day. In fact, to avoid boredom, it could not hurt to have sex other than in bed. You can do it in the kitchen, living room, even in the garage. But remember, what you want in sex should be communicated with your partner. And vice versa.
3. Accepting It Is
When a man and woman had shared a room and sedapur, each character will look original. Seduction rag did not reappear as when dating. There are only two people who had to adjust to each other .. This is where the real marriage. You and your partner learn to recognize individual differences. Some things that are a stumbling block in the relationship of husband and wife, are differences of perception, insight, and value. Including religious differences, cultural backgrounds, and personality. However, the differences could be overcome if only to try to understand each other and self introspection. Most couples who succeed in creating harmony until old age are those who managed to build together.
New unity is created when the couple managed to cultivate the spirit of sacrifice, not selfish, and have a sense of mutual understanding.
4. Do not Make a habit of Lying
Have your partner asked in detail if you are still busy until the evening meeting with business clients who turned out pretty or handsome, smart and attractive ? Well, usually, so that your partner is not too much to ask and you will be reluctant if it appears an argument, you are actually lying. You just say different things for good reasons.
You need to know that this is included in a lie that can be will continue until you and your spouse will be married to live a lie. So that it does not happen, uttered with a calm attitude that what you are doing is just business.
5. Do not Jealous Overstated
Many say that jealousy is the spice of household relationship. Okay, that's fine ! But that does not mean you or your partner could be jealous blind. Nothing new that a lot of disputes happen because of jealousy, which more often stems from misinterpretation and lack of openness.
For example, at one point because of the demands of work, the husband should ask his secretary out of town. The wife who only heard half the story from someone else, could easily accuse her husband was having an affair. And if only the wife and husband would ask to open, or previously introduced his secretary to his wife, could be another problem.
6. Avoid molester
The affair usually happens because each did not want to open each other or listen to what their partner complained. "For example, the husband was angry because every time she came, she was not at home ..!!" But the complaint was not delivered, or is expressed but not heard, or the wife did not want to change his habits.
An affair can also occur because the couple alone, rarely feel sexual pleasure or temptation from the outside like the nuances of erotic entertainment, siren and others. To resolve the dispute or adultery, which should be done first is to find the root permasalahnnya, then sought to be avoided or eliminated.
7. Look for The Third As Intercessor
If you find problems and strife arises between you and your partner, find a third person as mediator. People can like Kyai religious leaders or clergy, and community leaders who have broad knowledge and wise and psychologists. Search this better than your gripe with relatives, neighbors or your friends .. !
8. Stay intimate
In order for your relationship and your partner still tender, throw away all the perception that the romance is only worth it while still dating. Basically, the romance is the right of every person, regardless of age or status.
9. Give To The Above
Sometimes, excessive emotions arise when your problem and your partner reveals to the surface. Give yourself and pray To the Almighty Creator is a great way to diredamkan emotions and problems can be solved properly.
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