Tips and Trick for Domesticity. The following 4 simple steps how to get children to apologize :
1. Samples
Demonstrated how the apology should say. For example, parents accidentally spilled milk children, say, "Sorry, honey, you did not accidentally spill your breasts." So was another mistake made. It is expected the child accustomed to seeing the people closest to say sorry when making mistakes.
2. Show remorse with body language
Make eye contact when saying sorry, so the child can feel the remorse that accompanied the apology. Holding hands, hugging tightly, or kissing a child would also exemplary as a parent to apologize to the body language like that. But for the
record, made it clear to him that hug and kiss regret only be given to Dad / Mom / brother / sister, while for a friend / relative / other person enough to shake hands. Body language is also effective for the toddler who has not fluent verbal
communication that can not say the word sorry.
3. Encourage responsible to
In addition to say sorry, ask children to "responsible" for the mistakes he did. For instance, he nudged his friend to fall. Well after apologizing, if his friend was wounded, ask your child handed a tissue / plaster. This as part of learning about responsibility for the mistakes made.
4. Give appreciation
After the children say the word apology, given the appreciation in the form of a compliment, like, "Well, smart, you can apologize." It is at once a reinforcement that is doing is correct and necessary to repeat again on another occasion.
IMPORTANT MESSAGE
Besides the way, parents also must teach forgiveness when word was uttered, the moment that other people trouble, harming others, breaking promises, doing the things that have been banned, do things that are not like other people, and so on.
That way, the emphasis is the message to not repeat the mistakes, not simply apologize without understanding why.
What if a child is guilty does not accustomed to apologize?
* Children are not favored in her social as unusual apologize after making a mistake. This will result in social development. Especially if this indifference brought to maturity.
* The development of emotion is not optimal due to not admit mistakes, he could not judge him by right.
1. Samples
Demonstrated how the apology should say. For example, parents accidentally spilled milk children, say, "Sorry, honey, you did not accidentally spill your breasts." So was another mistake made. It is expected the child accustomed to seeing the people closest to say sorry when making mistakes.
2. Show remorse with body language
Make eye contact when saying sorry, so the child can feel the remorse that accompanied the apology. Holding hands, hugging tightly, or kissing a child would also exemplary as a parent to apologize to the body language like that. But for the
record, made it clear to him that hug and kiss regret only be given to Dad / Mom / brother / sister, while for a friend / relative / other person enough to shake hands. Body language is also effective for the toddler who has not fluent verbal
communication that can not say the word sorry.
3. Encourage responsible to
In addition to say sorry, ask children to "responsible" for the mistakes he did. For instance, he nudged his friend to fall. Well after apologizing, if his friend was wounded, ask your child handed a tissue / plaster. This as part of learning about responsibility for the mistakes made.
4. Give appreciation
After the children say the word apology, given the appreciation in the form of a compliment, like, "Well, smart, you can apologize." It is at once a reinforcement that is doing is correct and necessary to repeat again on another occasion.
IMPORTANT MESSAGE
Besides the way, parents also must teach forgiveness when word was uttered, the moment that other people trouble, harming others, breaking promises, doing the things that have been banned, do things that are not like other people, and so on.
That way, the emphasis is the message to not repeat the mistakes, not simply apologize without understanding why.
What if a child is guilty does not accustomed to apologize?
* Children are not favored in her social as unusual apologize after making a mistake. This will result in social development. Especially if this indifference brought to maturity.
* The development of emotion is not optimal due to not admit mistakes, he could not judge him by right.
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