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Knowing the secret lies Your Spouse

Tips and Trick for Domesticity. One powerful means to maintain a relationship of love is to establish a smooth communication, honest communication. The problem is, why people are afraid of telling the truth ?

People lie because people feel uncomfortable when telling the truth. If you lie, said Dr. Jackie Black in his book entitled Meeting Your Match: Cracking the Code to Successful Relationships, the man will be setegas not usually. If facing a direct question, the man will evade or answered "do not knows". To find out whether your spouse lying or not, you do not need to polygraph machines. You just enough attention to his movements.

Touching nose
One of the most visible sign when people lie is often touched his nose. Itching? Maybe. But maybe not if faced with a serious conversation context. Even touching your nose is not exactly a firm and sure that it is the language of lies, his nose touching gesture unconsciously it may be a direct indication that people are not ready to say what it is. At this point you can learn from the experience and habits of people who say is not true and honest. At the time, unconsciously and unintentionally, they would touch the nose.

Diction
People who do not usually lie directly answer your question. You said it, he'll answer it. Simple. But note the change in style of speech. If he lied, speech style will change. Once simple, now turned tricky. Complex. Sentence becomes very long, rambling, often did not touch the contents and did not answer the question. Can be complicated and forced diksinya impressed, "Boy", the intellectual and contain. Though often tangled logic. No connect. Between one thing and other things not related to each other. Such a leap is broken. Although this point could not dipersiskan as a sign that someone must have lied, carefulness still needed to hold the tail of logic errors (thinking and language).

A different behavior than usual
Another sign that you can hold the people who are not telling the truth is a different behavior. Other than usual. You must remember that the conduct or actions related to his mind. If he does not want you to know what actually happened, the movement must be supported. There are several movements or behaviors that you can consider, among other things, rubbing his neck or eyes, covering his mouth as he spoke, scratching his head or holding her ears, and move the neck but not in accordance with the sentence itself. Rubbed his eyes, for example. In psychology, the movement could be a representation of the refusal, transfer of emotion. So shut up too. Especially after talking, he quickly closed his mouth and a little surprised. That's a clear sign. Or also scratched his head-scratching. Try you look good behavior. If he's telling the truth and right, he did not need menggarukkan head. Scratched his head had a close relationship with self-protection mechanism. Such action to divert the attention and conversation of others. Likewise, the movement of the neck rubbed. The movement could be a transfer of emotion.

Pause and mistakes talking
This happens due to unpreparedness lies. People who are not prepared to lie to gelagapan, stuttering or stammering in anticipation of a statement or confirmation, even the wrong answer or talk. Too long a pause in the conversation can be an indicator. That means that people think long and how to say something. Although these elements can not be used as a benchmark, these elements still need to be considered in the dialogue or attempt to reveal the truth. For that, you still need to know the basis of people's behavior, learning speech patterns, body language and facial expressions. Observe any changes. Therefore, as much as possible to avoid communication via SMS, phone or email. Without face to face, you will be difficult to observe changes that occur. That means you also will be difficult to know whether he lied or not.

Contrary
Someone who likes to say honestly do not really hate the likely whose name detail or details. People that prefer to talk in general terms. Why? Because of the things that will detail gave her a hard to say what he meant. Told in detail similar to dismantle his lies. And it is usually avoided. Even if he tries to play with things that detail, there is no connect. Therefore, if you want to know whether he lied or not, ask him to play with the little things and details. When he started hard and could not clearly runut, chances are he's lying to you. Especially if he gets angry when you Questioning things. Or he's away. It's a clear indicator.

Blush
If you talk to someone, pay attention to color his face. If the color of his face did not change as before, you can still believe in him. But when you flicked something and the color of her face suddenly changed, even though he mangatakan "no", he was hiding something. Or is he surprised, and then afraid that you know the meaning. If it so, you will easily lure to tell the truth. Look at his eyes and notice the color of his face. Remember, even a great liar would not be able to control the spontaneous movement of the muscles of the upper face. Upper facial muscles were very quick to react with emotion.

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